Abundance Mindset

T-man19th · 2018-02-16T14:52:28+00:00

One creates abundance. Abundance is not just the act of courting several females at once but deeper than that; is the energy that you gain from "being on your path" in other words: fulfilling your own goals and building your own ecosystem of positive emotions therefore not needing the approval or others to feel good. If you are moving in accordance with your goals women can sense that. Almost how animals can smell fear. Go out and slay the world and watch how you become a magnet of positivity and good emotions. The women will follow.

hunterpua · 2018-02-16T17:24:00+00:00

Abundance mindset is useless for getting over a girl you're fixating on.

An abundance mindset is actually just one of the fake it til you make it tricks. So you basically act like you have all the options in the world and that will lead you to actually develop a life that has those options. There is value in it.

But in order to not fixate on one girl so easily, you need to have actual abundance.

I don't really think your problem is mindset. I think your problem is method. If you're only doing cold approach, that is a crappy way to develop abundance. You have to be good enough that some average guys consider you a legend before you can get abundance from cold approach.

A better way to get abundance is by putting yourself in an environment full of attractive women. Dance classes, yoga, cooking classes, etc. Talk to all of them, game all of them but do not ask any of them out inside the class. You need to be able to isolate them just because of the fact that you guys are so tight that they're cool hanging out with you outside the initial reason why all of you got together. So take your time, its like you have a farm full of cows. You don't need to eat all the cows at once.

If you're worried about getting friendzoned, just talk about the girls you're getting with from cold approach with them. Talk about how hot they are and how awesome the sex was or tell them stories about the dates you've been on and make sure to pepper in your manly sex drive in these stories, its also good to talk about how hot girls are when you guys are out. Never talk about how hot any single one of your yoga/cooking/dancing/etc buddies are though, no matter how hot they are. This will leave them wondering, "He's clearly straight. He clearly appreciates a beautiful woman. He loves sex. Other women are attracted to him. He chases tail like its nobody's business. But why hasn't he started hitting on me? I'm hot." They all start to think that individually and end up hitting on you and when they see each other hitting on you it just makes them compete and hit on your harder. How awesome is that?

So when you want to get with one of them just take her to your place when you two already happen to just be hanging out alone as "friends".

exhibitionistcouplez · 2018-02-16T17:05:38+00:00

I hate the term abundance, let's talk in terms of possibility.

Ever been on OKCupid? They have all those questions, and when people answer a bunch they get match percentages. You might have a few in the 90s, 80s and 70s are more frequent, and at least I rarely find someone under 50% who's answered at least 50 of their little questions.

The thing I'm pointing out is that the general trend is that people are alike enough to find something in common with just about anyone, and that the closer to a perfect match you're trying to come the fewer people there are, but at the same time you do not need a perfect match to have a healthy relationship with someone or to date them. You just need enough things in common to form a connection and that's actually really easy to find.

So, when you're going out you look for possibility. When you meet a new person you search for a way to relate to them that's genuine. And when you have conversational skills and interesting things to say enough to start talking to just about anyone who you have an opening to say hi to, suddenly you open up all kinds of interpersonal possibilities.

Alex_O7 · 2018-02-16T16:52:37+00:00

You can create abundance just talking and chatting even with girls you wouldn't like to fuck. When you start to flirt also with medium-low quality girls you'll start feel better and more natural also with the top ranked girls, that you actually want to fuck.

Title	Abundance Mindset
Author	ruelm
Upvotes	6
Comments	12
Date	February 16, 2018 9:46 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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