Need advice how to beat my friends to the punch?

simpleafk · 2018-02-20T04:08:28+00:00

If you don't have the balls to get what you want you deserve to have the girl taken away from you. I'm not trying to be a dick but simply reminding you that the world is a shitty place and does not owe you anything. No one is going to wait for you and to baby you until you get it. Dont be so naive and get over yourself.

CumHelp · 2018-02-20T02:59:11+00:00

Girl’s not girls’. How to stand out? You honestly sound like a typical ‘nice guy’, so grow a pair of balls and be confident. You don’t know if what you are offering is what she even wants. Each of you are offering different things, but it’s for her to figure that out and decide what she wants. The whole not being friends with the guy who gets her sounds so babyish.

Eskeeetiiit · 2018-02-20T04:23:18+00:00

You have a mutual friend? Ask her to help set you up, try and get her to make plans with all 3 of u or something who knows

Daniele_Lyon · 2018-02-20T11:46:32+00:00

No hope friend. As I can read by this post, this is not your turn. You’re gonna fail.

Try to learn more about yourself. If you conquer your friends, you can conquer everyone. So stop say “they just wanna fuck.” Because they are winning you. Say what you think to you friend, if they refuse; just leave them. Girls like people that act, people high in value.

Read some book. Improve your self. If you can’t success with girls, things are not gonna change. Is like having an issue. You have to learn how to heal yourself. Reading book is a good way to success. But not the only one.

BestSC86 · 2018-02-20T16:46:54+00:00

"My friends have their own agenda and I just want to have an honest person, my friends know that and don't care, they just wanna fuck and I feel like not being friends with whichever one gets her. "

None of that matters...and you sound like the classic "nice guy" who wants to save some girl.....even though you have no idea what the girl wants or is attracted toward....for all you know she is really busy and only wants a dude to fuck twice a week, so it doesn't really matter if you want to marry her and have a picket fence and 3 kids and 2 dogs. She might not want that at all, she might just want a dick for an hour on Sunday night. So get over your fantasy that you are saving some girl from "evil" dudes that just want to fuck her and thinking "I am better than my friends" shit....it makes no difference.

The ONLY THING that matters is "does she find you attractive, fun and interesting enough to go out with"....end of story. Everything else follows from that simply equation. So if you can't be more flirty, engaging and attractive to her that one of your friends then she is going to choose them regardless of your "intentions".

But I going out on a limb by saying that NONE of you are going to get with this girl because you have been orbiting around her for months like little puppies...I can guarantee that she hasn't shown any of you little boys any amount of romantic\sexual interest toward the possiblity she might think of you as potential lovers. A girl who is attracted to you will make time to let you know by giving you some sort of sign or attention or the really big one, a chance to ask her out by lingering at your table or coming over to say goodbye as you leave, etc, even if it is a waitress at a restaurant....but she has not done any of those things, has she?

To this girl you three dweebs are just these little boys who come in every couple of days...stare at her and giggle like a couple of middle school kids who just discovered girls. Unattractive.

She will smile and say no to any of you>>>>> then you can come back and read the sidebar>>>>>to learn how women actually want an attractive man to act and behave....

But you have already shown your true colors so it is too late.....

Title	Need advice how to beat my friends to the punch?
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Date	February 20, 2018 2:27 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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