Thoughts on Lone Wolfing

m-kunis · 2018-02-24T06:56:58+00:00

it’s more intimidating for sure. but i actually tend to pull MUCH more frequently when i go out solo because i’m less distracted by bullshitting with my wings and taking care of them.

when i go out solo, i’m a fucking hunter, a lone lion hunting gazelles. it’s a mission. drinking helps lol

brianbria · 2018-02-24T06:56:51+00:00

So, my question here is: what's your opinions on going solo to the bar?

I highly recommend going out solo. From my own experience here are some of the benefits I've discovered going out alone:

I am forced to rely on my own support - If I feel anxious or hesitant I learn to manage that on my own without aid of a friend or wingman. I also lose neediness on wingmen because if I know I can go out alone, then I won't be disappointed if a wingman says he can't come out that night. Bonus points if I also avoid my phone and alcohol as crutches.
More pressure to talk to people. - If I don't have friends or wingmen to talk to, I am forced to talk to women, strangers or stand alone and feel the tension.
I get the freedom to go where I want, leave when I want, eat where I want, talk to who I want without the restrictions of having to cooperate with a wingman or friend and comprising for their desires.
It's a great feeling of going out alone, talking to women/strangers and seducing a woman on my own. Then having the story to tell friends later on whether they believe me or not.

Now there are also downsides to consider:

Can lose motivation easier. - If you don't have a strong determination on your own or you're more of an introvert, then going alone and talking to lots of people may be a bit of a challenge. A wingman or friend can help keep the motivation up.
It becomes much more difficult to handle groups of two women. - When you go to clubs/bars, when women are in two's it's perfect if you have a wingman. But when you're on your own, the other girl will probably cockblock you because she wants to be with her friend.
You may have a higher chance of feeling lonely. - Especially if you find difficulty talking or warming up, when you see others having fun it can be a bit lonely.

In summary, I think the pro's outweigh the cons. And if you are determined, and make sure to warm up immediately and talk to everyone you'll most likely have many good nights out alone and build up a great foundation of skills.

mynameisfrankfurter · 2018-02-25T00:41:01+00:00

I can't tell you the power of just walking up to a person and starting a conversation. If you can be fairly calm and relaxed and push the conversation in a basic and general way - the other person will be amazed. I'm nothing special, but when a girl thinks I randomly walk up to them and start a conversation- they are very flattered. I would say about 50 to 60% of the time, they ask me similar questions, why did I start talking to them or what made me approach them (they ask me in a positive, curious way). I say they look interesting. (Just to note, obviously girls aren't curious when you approach at a bar/club, they know why you are there, but in other settings it's usually positive).

lapancakes · 2018-02-24T07:40:02+00:00

Definitely go out alone, and make the mission of the night to amuse yourself instead of trying to get laid

LingeringGnome · 2018-02-26T02:31:58+00:00

So, my question here is: what's your opinions on going solo to the bar?

It's brilliant. It's the best game. It's the bull elk. And it makes you better.

Make sure your clothes aren't faded. Add some muscle. Hired guns especially like a fit, confident man who isn't afraid to not be part of the frat.

Title	Thoughts on Lone Wolfing
Author	SpencerHD
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	February 24, 2018 6:35 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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