Quick background story... Have been seeing this recently divorced chick (late 20s) after we had an ONS. I still got lots to learn, so I fucked up on the LMR and didn't get laid that night. We have a couple friends in common, so instead of hard/soft next I figured I'd practice my skills with her and see what happens.

My issue issue is that I've hit the same LMR more than once now. All it takes for us to play in the sheets is just actually be together, it always flows rather naturally and she is very vocal about how she is attracted to me and all that (damn, all the RP truths confirmed by her without even noticing, feels good).

I've played different games with her... Smooth & chill, cave man mode, risky shit like a mall bathroom, etc... I'll get her dripping fucking wet, real hot and bothered, and in the last second, every time, she says we won't have sex. I've tried defusing it in many different always (not saying anything, further kino & escalating, agree and amplify, etc).

Here's what she told me: she doesn't want to have sex outside of a committed relationship given that she's religious and was married for over 10 years, blah blah blah.

I really don't buy her excuse, but after talking with her for a while over drinks (this is when she really opens up) she does seem to have some conservative/religious values and an alleged n count of just 1 (just her ex-husband).

Any thoughts? It's a foggy path and I'd appreciate any input that could help me clear things up.

edit: clarity