Not sure what’s going on?

phrenickk · 2018-03-12T00:28:50+00:00

“Hey wanted you to know I am thinking of you. I’m sorry you are having to go through this. I don’t know what to say or do but I’m here if you want to talk or anything”

zfgee · 2018-03-12T01:49:39+00:00

Stop texting. Like, text to set up the next date and connect in person.
p.s. Back off while she's going through this.. let her reach out to you.

fishscado · 2018-03-12T00:39:47+00:00

She’s mourning her family member, if you only see her as someone to fuck around with, then you’re out of luck cause sounds like she could use someone to talk to instead of messing around. As far as talking goes just comfort her with a genuine “they’re in a better place now.” “They’ll always be with you in your heart” “at least they’re not suffering anymore.” “You got one more angel watching over you.” And what not. The point is if she’s into you keep that attraction there with support and comfort. But avoid the friend zone by keeping it physical as in cuddle and long hugs or kisses on the forehead or as far as she’s comfortable with.

Diesel-Monkey · 2018-03-12T01:44:32+00:00

If you want to hit it here is my advice in a quote by Napoleon Bonaparte

“Put your iron hand in a velvet glove”

Mr_Tulitoes · 2018-03-14T23:32:05+00:00

Ok everyone, I texted her the day of the funeral. Obviously I waited until later in the day to just check up and see how she was doing. I told her to keep occupied if she could. She said she was awful and all she wanted to do was sleep all day. So I asked her if she wanted to meet up/hang out at some point of the week. She said maybe but she has to pick up at work since she practically took a week off. I then responded and said it didn’t have to be anything specific it could just be watching a movie or something. To which she didn’t reply. I figured she probably just needed some space so I haven’t texted her since. Being that today is Wednesday and she didn’t even text me yet I’m just questioning if she’s still interested in me or if she’s going through that rough of a time she needs that space. What does anyone else think? Should I shoot her a text since it’s been a few days? Or should I continue not texting her and see if she eventually texts me?

Title	Not sure what’s going on?
Author	Mr_Tulitoes
Upvotes	7
Comments	13
Date	March 12, 2018 12:24 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/83qxyd/not_sure_whats_going_on/
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