For guys past the age of 25, let's say you hate going to bars, clubs, concerts, you're not out leading a community group, etc.. so you don't have "social hobbies/ventures" etc.

But what you do have are introvert/solitary interests. Whether that means you're crafting (what you hope to be) the next great game on Steam, or you're exploring a niche in programming, or you're painting and writing short stories, hoping to eventually publish, etc.

Has any of this, ever helped with women, at all? Have you been able to talk passionately about what you're doing, and found it's a turn-on in the opposite sex? I frequently get this advice--have passionate interests, even if it's solitary, and be proud of what you do.. and this will be attractive.

Hopefully I find that some of you have attracted women with your passion and you're not all going to say "nah they like rock-band players, off-road bikers, guys who travel for fun and know a lot about the world.. those are the things you need" right? That wouldn't be me. I've got to be me. Surely introverted women who like the same, are not looking for their "opposite" am I right? I assume "like" attracts "like" and the awkward women who hide from society, often want the same from men or are turned on by similar passions/mindset.