Does anyone have any advice and or articles for getting over anxiety for just talking to random people?

Skywest96 · 2018-03-21T06:35:14+00:00

I have an advice :

When you see someone and you want to go and talk to them. Don't think , go asap. Because the more you wait, the less chances you have to actually go. Simple but true and proven .

hobo_teacher · 2018-03-21T01:59:38+00:00

In what context. Going up to random strangers and starting conversation isn't a necessary life skill for everyone, usually people who do that are outliers.

Kenic_In_MD · 2018-03-21T02:07:49+00:00

The way I learned it was by doing it, I was an awkward bastard and at times still am. But trial by fire worked best for me, start with random things.

"This weather sucks!"

"Whats up with this traffic?!"

stuff like that. Reading Social engineering books can help too, you aren't using it for malicious purposes per se, but the social concepts are there.

tab13092 · 2018-03-21T13:17:48+00:00

Warm up (talk to shop clerks about products, order something from a shop e.g juice if hard case)
Ask girl for directions, key word, girl. progress if you can
Ask girl for directions, tell her she looks nice, leave
etc

this is really the only way. Exposure method & consistent neurological rewiring. There is also the shock method & it works for some but did not work for me

Title	Does anyone have any advice and or articles for getting over anxiety for just talking to random people?
Author	DashedKnight48
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	March 21, 2018 1:40 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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