You go out. The day just started and you feel a bit nervous. There is some self judgement and anxiety. You start the day by warming up, as you always should.

Go up to the first person: Completely ignores you

Second person: Kinda annoyed you went up to them

Third person: "Ok, have a nice day"

You feel discouraged but you don't let it get the best of you. You keep pushing interactions and expressing yourself. Giving people compliments, cold readings, and just a ton of value. As much as you can.

Slowly everything begins to feel lighter. You're having fun. You go up to girls and they are super gracious.

You feel this powerful forward momentum thats egging you to go up to the next one. You let that momentum carry you. Pushing yourself into new interactions over and over.

THAT'S SUCCESS. Its not getting the girl. Its that opening of the heart and mind that happens as the day goes on. Its that rush of fun you feel when you see a girl and you are no longer tormented but excited to talk to her.

Every single interaction where you are pushing yourself, fighting against the pressure, and making it fucking happen. Thats what success is.

Stop fucking giving up early. Realize that the negative feeling is there for you to conquer. Push yourself. Put the fucking gas down.

Written by a guy that just had an awesome day of pickup. Peace

https://youtu.be/shO5ivs_klY?t=18m19s