Before I start I’m going to try and condense this shit down, so I don’t go on a massive tangent and end up boring you to fucking death with essays of text. We`ve all got better things to be doing.

I see it time and time again post after post, people asking the same relatable questions about pickup/seduction “What should I reply” “How do I approach this girl” “How do I open her and not freak her out” Over and over again people searching for some hidden fucking handbook that teaches them how to seduce women.

Well let me break it down for you real short and simple IT DOESN’T EXSIST. No amount of questions in a sub reddit will solve your problems, you are the sole reason of your problem and the only way to conquer this is to learn from your own experiences. Don’t become this logical seduction guy that on paper knows everything there is to know. But doesn’t go out into the real world and try to get girls.

Attraction is either there or it isn’t, there is no text guide game to get her attracted to you. There isn’t the perfect opener that will make her attracted to you, she’s either into or she’s not. In Mark Mansons book Models he writes “If you’re not a fuck yes about a girl then you’re a fuck no why waste your time?” I cannot reiterate this enough if she isn’t replying and making you wait and shes single and available she simply isn’t attracted to you and will string you along for the validation boost she gets. Trust me I’ve been there.

Everything YOUR about is the reason shes into you or not, if shes into she will literally open all the doors and make it easy for you. Yes, she will test you but that’s only her female wiring weeding the weak from the strong.

The core concepts of game still apply but its what you want from it that truly matters. You should be focusing on yourself and making your life awesome the rest follows. There is no set time to reply to a text do it on your own accord of course don’t go over the top and blow her phone up every 5 minutes. Reply when you want to reply not because you need to wait because she took 4 hours so I’m going to take 10 hours to prove a point.

Read Mark Manson “Models and Corey Wayne “How to be a 3% man” and listen to that shit. They both have the right concept with women. It will either happen or it won’t, don’t get hung up on the situation enjoy it. Yes, women play games but so do men. Be the best person you can be I cannot stress this enough. Mark Manson has a very interesting concept in the book Models he says that pickup/game is objective. You are using this line to interest this girl etc.

What happens when this girl finally starts to see you for who you really are, not this cocky asshole you let her believe at the beginning. Help yourself and stop trying to implement “Plan 605764” to get the girl but be yourself.