How to get girls to respond on tinder?

NuKidOnThBlokchyn · 2018-05-04T09:36:12+00:00

Numbers game for the first response.

Try asking to see a female friends matches or create a female profile. They literally have thousands to go through.

Make your opener unique, tailored and respondable (there's actually something for her to say back) and persevere.

SilverMarinus · 2018-05-04T19:16:44+00:00

One trick i like is to use the 'message preview' that they see in their inbox. They can only see the first 5 -7 words or so. So make those first 7 words "clickbait", so to speak.

Make them want to hear the rest of the sentence so they have to actually open it. For example, "Hey, thats really strange how you... (rest of sentence) " or "Interesting choice of outfit with the... (rest of sentence) " or "What the heck is that in the photo with... (rest of sentence)

They're gonna be like "what was he talking about? I need to know!" It may not guarantee a response every time, but it guarantees they open the message, which is a huge part of the battle.

circlhat · 2018-05-04T12:52:57+00:00

Hi, or whats up? or ask your brother

t1mman · 2018-05-04T14:48:57+00:00

90% of tinder is the pics (a small part of this 90% is the bio), you have the remaining 10% is left for the opener and the timing.

And the pics are all about being able to sell yourself. It's all about talking to the subconscious and gives cue they will look for.

There's a lot of articles written on this already, but to summarize: Good pictures quality, show social intelligence, show good health, good hygiene, show some passions. Aim at a specific audience for better results.

billiam632 · 2018-05-04T18:03:35+00:00

Good pictures.

Do not message past 1am.

Do not say "Hey"

Message something mildly creative.

Tease here and there.

Set up date and ask for number quickly (aka do not message her for a week straight before asking).

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-05-04T09:46:38+00:00

Be good looking. If you can't do that get a really good photo of yourself and photoshop the hell out of it.

seductionbuck · 2018-05-04T11:58:47+00:00

Before I would send something clever out of their bio or photos but now I simply just send their name.

My logic is if they reply to something as simple as their name then their attraction is already a bit higher and I won't have to put as much effort into creating attraction.

If a girl messages you first then pretty much it's up to you to not say something stupid.

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