Girl texts me all the time, but somehow won't visit me

dafguj · 2018-05-07T13:01:17+00:00

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yardapesbb · 2018-05-07T12:56:35+00:00

Hi welcome to the friendzone.

Peeweemcbird · 2018-05-07T15:53:06+00:00

As a girl I think what she’s doing is mean. If she wanted to have sex with you she’d meet you and do it, or even text you that she wants to, its so easy for girls, we all know it, Even with people we don’t know well, but she has the added benefit of knowing you’ll do it 100% instead of 90%

If she is naughty enough to do noods she’s naughty enough to have sex. She’s not doing that. If it was a thing of she “wants to date and wait and see how things go” she wouldn’t send noods. So by that logic, she doesn’t want to have a physical touch by you, because clearly she doesn’t have to to get you bent out of shape. I know that sounds harsh but I’m trying to make it clear that girls do manipulate like this. She is also telling you the sweet shit. Not good. You’d rush to see her but she doesn’t you. She may SAY these lovely things but she’s not acting them out. They’re pretty much barefaced lies.

It’s quite obvious when people like eachother, in general. Girls can pick it up easier than guys, most of us are more free to be emotional so most have more experience in that area and can pick it up pretty easily. Some girls like to even just know you will jump off a bridge for them, it strokes their ego. Some do it because they believe they’re getting some weird revenge on guys that jerked them around. I don’t know what the deal is but I have friends who do it. I don’t condone it.

Look, you’re coming from a good honest place, you want to have a good bond with a lovely girl, there’s nothing wrong with that, and this is absolute crappy luck. You could try sitting her down and telling her how you feel about her actions and everything, what you’re looking for, but I wouldn’t bother. She’s made it clear she doesn’t want to be clear cut, putting her on the spot to suddenly be might spell trouble. Remember, this is a HER problem not a you problem and this experience does not reflect on you, and if you were good at PUA then clearly you had something to bring to the table she is missing out on, and that’s an awful shame for her.

Title	Girl texts me all the time, but somehow won't visit me
Author	dafguj
Upvotes	4
Comments	16
Date	May 7, 2018 10:34 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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