Tinder Feedback: Did I screw up?

hunterpua · 2018-05-08T17:55:42+00:00

Should have left it with the question about her hair.

Think about it, she opened you. Don't let her do one thing then be so impressed with her that you have to try to impress her back otherwise she knows you're easy. And girls get bored as hell with easy guys because that's the kind of guy she meets most often.

You are doing something right considering she messaged you first and you would have gotten this girl bending over backwards...or bending over on your bed begging for you had you tweaked how you responded a little bit.

The right response when a girl does anything in attempt to impress you is to milk the hell out of it. So you should have sent the message "I have at least one answer but I'm more interested to hear yours" without the naughty smiley (because the naughty smiley already says that you want her and you'll want her regardless of how good the joke is) and then when she gave you the cucumber line you could have responded with "That's actually really clever" then next message "but I bet that's the best you got". That way you immediately start challenging her and making her work harder to impress you.

Think of a job interview. If you punched below your weight and say, applied to work at a food truck, you wouldn't value that job too much but if you punched above your weight and applied to Google, which btw there is a shit ton of hard work needed to do before you even get to apply, if you land that job you will hold on to it like your life depended on it. That's because you worked so damn hard to get it and the pay will sure as hell be worth it.

So make girls work hard to get you so that when they do and you make the sex and being around you worth it, they will hold on to you like their lives depend on it.

Exquisitly · 2018-05-08T12:47:01+00:00

you should block her face out.. I am sure she doesn't want all of Reddit knowing. haha

t1mman · 2018-05-08T16:01:35+00:00

3 texts, no answers, don't write anything more...

Rule of thumb, MAX 2 text without a reply. More than that, it appear as needy AF, even more if they are all questions (like those!)

It's ok to ask questions, but if you can make affirmation, it will make her invest more. She is not "answering your questions" then, she is taking part in a conversation.

BozoCardozo · 2018-05-08T13:00:36+00:00

Lol that’s corny as hell. Just wait til she responds. Everyone’s different, but I only check Tinder once every day or two

Title	Tinder Feedback: Did I screw up?
Author	rprior2008
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	May 8, 2018 12:41 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/8hwd45/tinder_feedback_did_i_screw_up/
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