Hey all - came to mind, wanted to share.

It's no secret that girls love rough sex. Many. I'd argue a large majority. It varies from woman to woman, of course, but it's up to us to test for it and take it to her sexual utopia. The reason for that is because the seduction process sometimes involves the exploration of the sexual in a nonverbal capacity before a person is fully comfortable verbally expressing their sexual desires. Here I want to go through my typical process to gauge where the girl I'm out with lies on the spectrum, and how to deliver what she likes.

NOTE: None of this is meant to condone ANY sort of nonconsensual sex or sexual behavior. Please confirm that you have consent for your actions as you move forward.

We'll start with a first date/encounter, and move forward to sex. I'll also litter in how to pick up on her sexual tastes even if you've already slept with her and are looking to explore more.

If it's your first date, you've most likely started performing some kino. Generally, the forays into the sexual don't begin until you've received some positive responses to the kino, and it's at the point where you can plant a kiss on her and she's not gonna move away or reject you. DON'T TRY THIS SHIT WITH A GIRL WHO'S NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU. That's a surefire way to end up with a harassment charge.

Alright - you've kissed her, and confirmed attraction. Now it's time to begin exploring. Generally, you can start with an ass grab - and you can squeeze an ass pretty hard. Watch her reaction. If she's not responding well to an ass grab, then she's either a) into you enough to kiss, but still not that into you, or b) vanilla. This is fine. It's all a process of exploration. Luckily, I've never come across a woman who's into me and complains about a firm ass grab. From here, you can begin harder grabs. Now - you only get two/three chances in a night to really gauge this, so make sure you use them well. Otherwise, you're just grabbing her ass a ton and it's like "alright, I get it, you like my ass... but stop." by the 3rd time you should be grabbing pretty much as hard as you possibly can. Some girls may give you an "ow!" in which case you smirk and say "alright, now we know how rough you like it" and you're good. If she doesn't respond negatively at all... You've got a freak on your hands, sir. Enjoy thoroughly.

Another tactic is the hair pull. Generally I club this with a little sexual chitchat. "So, would you consider yourself more dominant or submissive?" She's probably gonna say submissive. If not, she might say "a little of both." And if not... well, I've never dealt with that, so I don't know how to help you there. If she said the first two, you can say something like "oh yeah? So you're a fan of the hair pulling and the such?" while you turn your palm inward, run it up her back and neck and rest it at the base of the back of her scalp. Bring your fingers together to grab a handful of hair at the base. Pull down - firmly, but not quickly. Don't jerk her head back, but let it fall back in such away that you convey dominance - that her head is now in your control. This has immediately been met with positive body language and vocal response by the overwhelming majority of women I've done it to. Plant another kiss on her and grab her ass if you feel like it.

Generally, at this point, you've gotten a good feel of where the girl lies on the sex scale. Generally girls are submissive, generally girls like it rough. You're better off leaning slightly rough on a first date - since you don't want your first impression to convey that you COULDN'T be dominant if she wanted you to be.

Alright, now you're taking her back to the crib. This is where you can begin to open the box (kek) and explore the sexual with this girl.

If she's the submissive type, there's a lot of guidance involved. I've always noticed that submissive girls tend to focus a lot of attention on your orgasm and pleasure. So this is another indicator - if you've been with the girl a couple times already, and she's talked about whether you've cum, wanted you to cum, and spent lots of time working on making you cum, she's generally submissive. This means you can do a lot to take charge of her, and she will like it. They'll also ask you permission to do things, or ask you what you want them to do. In these situations, don't back off from the question. Her question is meant to convey - "I'm in your hands tonight. Do what you want with me, because that will please me most." This doesn't, however, give you a free pass to ignore her orgasm or pleasure. You need to maintain control and give the impression that this sex is you "having your way" with her, while at the same time using the right combination of thrusting, clitoral stimulation, nipple pinching, choking, hair pulling, ass slaps, and anal stimulation to get her to climax. Making a girl cum is going to make her want to fuck you again.

But - back to the guidance. As you get clothes off and you're making out with her, grab her by the hair again, and slowly pull her head down. If she's submissive, chances are she'll want to suck your cock pretty badly. Guide her to it. With your hand in the hair at the base of her scalp, slowly pull her head down until she's on her knees in front of your cock. If she's having trouble with your belt, unbuckle it for her. Let her introduce herself to your cock. Then it's up to you. She'll most likely begin in whatever styles she's familiar with - and you can add feedback. Moan for her dammit - your pleasure is her aphrodisiac. Put your hand back in her hair and force her through the motions a little. Feel it out - start with a little, then more forceful. You'll be able to gauge her response. Some girls want to straight up choke and gag on your cock - you'll push their heads all the way down, they'll begin coughing or gagging, eyes watering, but as soon as you let them go and can see their faces again now that your cock is no longer in their mouths... their eyes are lit up with excitement and they're borderline grinning. Some girls fucking love that shit. Others, not so much. They'll stop you at their threshold, and that's fine, ain't a damn thing wrong with head even if it's vanilla head. Just don't push a girl past the signals she's giving you.

Alright, that's some of the basics of head. Now for sex - and god dammit, there's a lot for this one. (Note: I'm skipping giving her oral, but there are quite a few ways to do that dominantly as well. I'll follow up if there's interest.) First and foremost - you should be able to easily pick your girl up. If you can't - date smaller chicks, or workout more. Girls love nothing more than for a man to pick them up and shove them into a wall, making out with them hard while grabbing their ass firmly, spreading their cheeks and exposing their pussylips - even if they have pants on. Nothing gets a sub girl wetter than a man who can MANhandle her. Be firm with getting her clothes off. No need to rip or stretch anything, but take big handfuls of clothes and use straight, swift motions to get things like sweater+shirt+bra off in one go (make sure the bra's unhooked of course). The first thing I always do when a girl's ass is exposed is either bite it or smack it hard - sometimes both. The process of undressing and having her spread her legs for you is just as important to manhandle as when you're finally inside her, thrusting away. Now - obviously, thrusting should be done firmly, with a loud enough smack happening with every one. This can be performed in virtually every position - so don't be afraid to do it. You're not gonna hurt her - and if you do, ease up, let her get used to you, and slowly increase the roughness again. All the meanwhile - more hair pulling from the base of the scalp. More bites - neck, chin, shoulders, etc.. I'm personally not a fan of nail digging but you can try lightly at first and then increase your pressure - but this can sting in a non-sexual way, so be careful with it. Pinch her nipples - again, firmly but lightly at first, and increase and watch her reaction. Some girls straight up want that shit clamped down - and some just don't want them touched. It's up to you to find the happy medium. smack her ass hard, grab it hard, spread her cheeks. Rough sex isn't just a jackhammer - it's about consistently creating light (or medium or intense - depends on the woman) points of pain as going through the sexual process. Asserting your dominance by making the position change yourself - not requesting it, not asking for it, but grabbing her body and guiding her to do so. Choking is another thing that you can explore - but remember to be careful here - choking CAN result in injury if you're doing it wrong. You want to use one hand and choke at the TOP of the neck - not the bottom. Do it on yourself to find where you can feel your air being cut off - and do the same to her. DO NOT USE YOUR WEIGHT TO APPLY PRESSURE - you can collapse her throat and seriously injur and/or kill someone by doing this incorrectly. When testing on yourself, you'll notice that it doesn't take that much pressure and you can easily cut off airflow on your neck while upright - use an equal amount of force to cut off her air. If you're nervous about it, don't do it while you're on top. Do it in an upright position, or in doggy - where you're forced to hold the front of her neck from under her, so you don't risk putting weight on her neck in these positions. edit: One thing I should note is that while the act is inherently dominant, the focus is physiologically one of her pleasure. So even if she's not into it from a conceptual level, you can open her up to it by saying something like "but have you ever had an asphyxiated orgasm? It's only the best orgasm you'll ever have." Vanilla girls ain't mad after they experience that. The point of the choke is not only to convey dominance, but also to cut off her air supply such that her brain receives stronger pleasure signals from her body. Mix a good choke with 5-10 seconds of very hard pump fucks, and play with her clit at the same time if you can. I've made multiple girls have leg-shaking, pussy-gushing orgasms from this - so it's a VERY powerful tool.

From this point forward, feel free to have very open conversations about what you like, don't like, and what you want to try out. Hell, introduce this to the interaction really as early as possible - if it comes up before your first sexual encounter, even better - but many times, the seduction process involves doing some of this nonverbally such that verbal communication can then be more comfortable.

Those are the overall basics to introducing rough sex and fucking a girl rough. Remember - this is to be done to women that you've CONFIRMED ATTRACTION with. Do not randomly go up to a girl you don't know and start grabbing her ass - you're a fucking moron if you do and deserve the jailtime that comes next. Make sure you understand how to pick up on nonverbal cues - they will be very important to figuring out your girls pain threshold and where to draw the line. Also - make sure YOU'RE comfortable with the actions - it matters just as much as her comfort level. Let me know what you guys think!