How to build attraction in loud environments?

Chaddite · 2018-05-17T00:23:40+00:00

Tbh the answer is: learn to be a good dancer. Girls love guys who can dance and if you dance together its so easy to seal the deal. I’ve even made girls wet just by dancing ans some non-vaginal hand magic.

However, if you dan’t want to or absolutely can’t dance you might 1) hold short convos within the club and then ask to go out for more or to smoke etc 2) go after girls who are tired so they are not dancing and sitting etc.

Basically just try to gold convos and move them to a more silent place. For concerts that could be going to the back of the venue.

JoeMarini · 2018-05-17T01:35:44+00:00

So I’ve been going to shows/concerts for about 16 years:

Focus on having a good time and look forward at the band and have a good time. Focus on your sub communications, your body language, your eye contact with her, and how she reacts and her body language. Chit chat in between bands. Over time make slow physical escalation/kino/intimacy like putting your arm around her or holding her hand etc and see how she reacts. Tease her in between bands. Lead the interaction. Don’t scream in her ear during bands and focus too much on her, have a balance and watch the bands, give her a chance to want your attention! Build rapport/break rapport mix. When the moment is right and she is giving you the signs naturally look into her eyes during the music and kiss her if the opportunity presents itself.

Peter_B_Long · 2018-05-17T19:10:40+00:00

Well if you're going with a girl, I would just be touchy and escalate physically. Set changes during a concert are the perfect time to have a conversation and take a soft break from the kino.

Approaching a girl in a loud environment can be more difficult, especially if you have no good excuse to talk to her. For example, let's say you just met some dude at the bar of the club you guys are at. He mentions that he came with his cousin and her friend. You see him later on with these 2 girls, so you go up to him, say what's up again, and introduce yourself to his group just by leaning close to their ear. In the past, I've even taken out my cell phone and typed up a message so she could read it (like if I'm asking her if she wants to come with me to grab a drink or something) I may even just tell her to put her name in my phone while I have it out.

You definitely want to isolate yourself with her after a while. If you're at a loud club where the music is non stop, ask her to come with you to get a drink, use the bathroom, smoke a cigarette, etc. Take a break from all the touching and movement, have a conversation and relax for a second, then head back and continue the escalation.

hunterpua · 2018-05-17T20:36:20+00:00

Concert date? Just have fun. Seriously, its the easiest thing in the world.

Since its a date, not a girl you have to approach, she's already with you and she knows that you're going to something that'll make it hard to talk so she'll understand. Pretty much your only option to build attraction, at least while the concert's going on, is to be fun by having fun. So I hope you really like this band so that you can let loose.

Title	How to build attraction in loud environments?
Author	magnetlinker13432142
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Date	May 17, 2018 12:10 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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