I aproached girls for the first time in nightclub. Looking for feedback

recyclablebanthas · 2018-05-22T14:31:09+00:00

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2018-05-22T12:57:05+00:00

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asthebroflys · 2018-05-22T07:44:50+00:00

Never ask a girl her age. Ever.

tab13092 · 2018-05-22T14:21:35+00:00

So without even reading through most of this I can already tell you the problem you're having; You're literally overthinking all of it.

Ultimately, the only person that can help you sort this is yourself.

In your own mind, run through the night and think about your interactions. What did you do that resulted in positive feedback, what did you do that was neutral or negative. Once you've sorted that, eliminate the things that didn't work over all and stick with those that did.

Social intelligence all boils down to knowing general boundaries, what is/isn't socially acceptable, and to figure out how to tell someone's personal boundaries. It's generally common sense imo.

Just go out, have fun, and stop thinking about every little thing. People aren't robots, there's no logistics that can help you become better with women. People as a whole function based off emotion.

nonsass · 2018-05-22T06:57:14+00:00

I'm no expert, but it sounds like your openers were boring / obvious. Try to hook them or make them laugh with the first sentence you say, and if they look like they don't want you to leave them alone, success!

symptomunknown · 2018-05-22T08:57:30+00:00

You start out by saying you were having a shitty night... If that was your mentality while you were out that night that says a lot. You should be having a fucking great time no matter what, and it sounds like that's why you got such miserable reactions you literally offered no value especially in night game when you're competing with the environment you have to be bold, be a little threatning even but always playfully. It just sounded like you were meandering around half heartedly approaching girls. Be the fucking party. Talk to guys go up to a cool looking dude and genuinely start a convo and bro out....stop giving a fuck be social with everyone and then when you approach the hottie your energy will be of a positive nature you could open with hi and you'll see her attention just gravitate towards you. It's about your vibe your energy your intention way more than about what you say.

Papi189 · 2018-05-22T14:24:20+00:00

You definitely have a lot of work to do bro!

Title	I aproached girls for the first time in nightclub. Looking for feedback
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	7
Comments	13
Date	May 22, 2018 6:43 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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