hey guys,

some quick advise would be much appreciated.

Im 21 and have had some success with girls not much tho.

Ive always found they are super interested me in the start but then they become less interested i.e i would get with the girl a couple of times but after a while they would just want to be friends or become cold towards me.

is it because i dont live an exciting life?

maybe i become too invested at the start when i meet girls ?

am i too nice they want some one more of a bad boy?

obviously you people on reddit dont know me so you cant pin point what it is, but maybe some advice could lead me in the right direction?

I always think of the brad pitt rule when these things happen, i.e this wouldnt happen to brad pitt haha

im not very extraverted either and tend to be quiet sometimes in group situations but have had women still interested in me which is a good thing i just need to figure out my weaknesses