How to not be perceived as a predictable, boring nice guy?

judahman8 · 2018-06-28T07:59:23+00:00

Don't think about how not to be perceived as a predictable boring nice guy, think about how to not be a predictable boring nice guy. Do this by trying new things. Read books you never thought to read, especially non fiction. Watch more Anime if you haven't seen a bunch of different kinds. Watch movies that you never thought of watching and play video games you never thought to try. Make a habit out of constantly looking to try something. The more things you try the more well rounded you become and the more interesting of a person you become. As for being a nice guy read Mode 1 or something

ReighIB · 2018-06-28T07:51:25+00:00

You don't have to answer this to me but honestly ask yourself why you are nice to people. If you can be honest with yourself about this then you might be onto something.

tab13092 · 2018-06-28T17:52:47+00:00

First of all, you need to kill your needy mindset (though it may be mild compared to others, worrying about what people think of you is being needy)

If you want don't want to be perceived as a boring/predictable guy, then stop being a boring/predictable guy.

The only way to add value to your life is by actually adding value. Take up some new hobbies, start a project you have been putting off, find anything to take on that adds fulfillment to you life.

You can't fake wholeness in your life, or at least hold up that front to end up in a relationship (assuming that would be your end game)

As for being predictable, by breaking the mundane cycle of life and adding more enriching things it will shake up your usual habits and add a pep to your step. People will immediately noticed you have changed (for the good) and become interested because it's unlike you.

At the end of the day, you will only acquire what you desire by working towards it. Hope this helps pal. Best of luck.

Title	How to not be perceived as a predictable, boring nice guy?
Author	5hr00m
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	June 28, 2018 7:19 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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