Yeah I know red pill is supposed to be typically for men but hey my family member needs help yeah.

My mum has major oneitis for her ex. They broke up over twenty years ago but she constantly cries herself to sleep thinking about him and about 'everything she missed out on'. Encouraging abundance mentality in her fails to work because it makes her think she 'is a slut and i don't want to be a slut'.

She has a bizarre hatred for my father and refuses to take up a job or pursue any goals in life. Every job she's tried to get into in the last ten years she's lost before she even started because she 'didn't care'.

She can literally sit in her room in the dark for days on end crying to herself about her poor broken heart and how much she must have hurt her ex. When people suggest this is insane behavior she insists they are no better and that they are trying to manipulate her. When I ask her to find her own way out she shrieks at me that I am no better than anyone else and why can't I tell her exactly how to fix herself.

How do I fix her oneitis, TRP?