My texting game is a bit weak? How can I improve this?

junkysailor · 2018-07-01T14:59:41+00:00

Something I try to do is to not text to her as if she is one of my buddies, I feel like that’s a one-way ticket to friendzone.

dopamineaddictt · 2018-07-01T16:40:29+00:00

i remember back in the day i used to text girls for hours and hours thinking i have such game, only to realize later that it was pointless and leading nowhere, not because the girls didn't like me but because i was too much of a pussy to make a move in person. All the texting made me comfortable staying behind a screen. I would suggest as the person above said, use texting to set up in person meetings, doesnt matter if its something as small as getting coffee just set it up for in person. But that doesnt mean you can't have banter over text. I would suggest keeping the banter in the sexual domain but to do that make sure you have established that kind in person.

__ManBeast__ · 2018-07-01T22:07:10+00:00

My Tips for Text Game

Don't text her like you're BFFs(this just means don't share your feelings and act friendly without any sexual energy to accompany it)
Either text for logistics, or ramp up the sexual energy (If she's interested, go for a meetup and keep it minimal. If she's on the fence/not very interested, tease her with sexual remarks and outlandish statements to peak her interest)
Match her investment level (She sends 3 texts, send 2. She replies four hours later, do the same)
If it can be misconstrued, it will be (Sarcastic remarks and teases need to be accompanied with "lol"s, "jk"s, and emojis so she doesn't think you're serious. Just because you understand you're being funny, doesn't mean she does)

JediMindTwix · 2018-07-01T15:17:34+00:00

Texting should be used just to set up face to face meetings

hunterpua · 2018-07-01T19:43:04+00:00

Is it easy to come up with things to say in conversation? Because coming up with things to say is typically easier when you're texting because you can take your time. In fact, you taking a long time to come up with something to say will look like you're not needy and have a lot of other things going on because all she sees from her perspective is that you haven't replied in a while.

What you want to be doing so you'll get a general idea of what to say is to always have a direction when you're texting. Texting typically is used to make plans and for sexual escalation. So have one of those things in mind when you text, do you want to get her on a date or do you want to get her to the point that she's so horny that she'll just come over to your place to fuck? Never text girls for the sake of fucking texting because maybe its not that you don't know what to say but that you don't really even care to have the conversation in the first place.

Slonkers4 · 2018-07-01T18:54:18+00:00

- Free your mind, when youre free youre creative and unique. My go to covo starter? Im not lying. I say "Do you like my DVD?" and send them a picture of home alone 4, the best home alone. It doesnt work for everyone as it keys into my normal personality but it attracts the girls I like ie funny, creative types.

- "Hi" "Hey" "Heyyy" etc are NO GOS. You will be rejected.

- Do not text regularly, keep yourself scarce and more importantly disapier when she wants you most. Are you in a fun and engaging convo? Dip for an hour or so. Sometimes reply instantly sometimes leave it a day. Remember this girl is just a girl. Youre in charge

- Dont ask for pictures of her naked BUT do send her snaps if youre using snapchat (try to do it more when youre doing something cool like rock climbing or tai kwon do)

- In general regular game applies but its a lot more brutal as people nowerdays have the attention of a goldfish

- Every semi attractive girl will be talking to 100 other guys. Seperate yourself. Dont feel bad if you cant connect with her. You might just be unlucky.

- THE NUMBER ONE GOLDEN RULE: Text to set up a date AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. Its very important VITAL even that you have a good initial conversation in person. Heres a example say i talked to her the day before at a party

[Open e.g hey blah blah inside joke]

[She responds]

(As soon as possible go into...)

[(On tuesday at 12:34:9824323470 im going down to [town] to [something semi internet/ funny] you should come with if youre free]

It shows youre busy and dont care about her that much with time and its convenient, like you were already busy and the afterthought was she could come.

Edit - I forgot to mention most of these are for if youve never met the girl before. If you have the last one is vital

Good luck brochacho x

Title	My texting game is a bit weak? How can I improve this?
Author	trophz2k
Upvotes	7
Comments	22
Date	July 1, 2018 11:37 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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