I don't usually post on here, but I've been a lurker.

I'm not sure what your guys opinion of Todd V is but I was watching a video of his when he said:

"in order for a girl to sleep with you, it has to be a win for her"

I thought "DUH".

But then I started thinking a bit deeper. Questions flooded my mind.

The one I thought about the most?

"How do I make sleeping with me look like a win to her before I even open my mouth"

And I've thought of a few good answers. Things like:

Being in somewhat good shape (I don't think many girls would think sleeping with a fat slob would be a win, but hey, it happens more than you'd think),

Having a little bit of style,

Good, confident, open body language (shoulders down and back, breathing deep, head up),

Having a good time with friends before you even approach her,

Being in a relaxed frame of mind (she can feel it before you even start talking),

And there's probably more that I can't think of.

Which is why I'm posting this. I wanted to brainstorm with you all AND I wanted to hear your opinions on this.

The idea is to start the interaction with YOU on the hill, instead of fighting an uphill battle with her skepticism.

Share your thoughts.