Have a plate dilemma. Damn good plate, awesome in bed, has even gone as far as to help out with some recent medical issues I've had. She's a grad student and left for the holidays, no big deal, I do me and she does her.
While she's gone she starts feeding me some bullshit (I assume from talking to her mother) that I don't show her the appreciation she deserves and she has to look out for herself and focus on school when she gets back and can't be bothered with the shit I'm going through.

I smell a manufactured conflict ala ASD (so she can chase cock with impunity while away). So I side step that shit and say "Fair enough." She gets "insulted" that thats all I have to say to which I ask her "You're insulted by my agreeing with you?" She gets pissy and I go radio silence.

Cue drunken merry christmas texts. Returned favor and continued radio silence. Cue drunk NY texts with a plea " don't drink too much" (my medical condition is alcohol related). Return favor, continue radio silence.

She gets back in town and asks "If I'm ok." I tell her I'm good and just got done lifting and ask how she is. "I'm fine. Glad you're ok." with a stupid smiley. I don't respond at all and today she sends me a text asking when a good time to meet up to exchange effects that we have at each others places is.

I'd like to keep her on tap, but I'm not sure if I should hard or soft next. I foresee her swinging back around. How should I handle this one?