Beginner need help on multiple areas, like creating tension

Samaniak · 2018-07-03T19:48:34+00:00

Generaly speaking if you want go for the kiss just stop talkiing at some point and just look in her eyes and go for it. If you want more detailed tips or trick just go on youtube and search for RSD instructors i personaly like RSD Max and RSD Tyler so just search for it and find video of that topic.

six-bible · 2018-07-03T20:01:49+00:00

It's called 'calibration' -- learning when to escalate, etc. You can only learn by doing.

Proceed carefully, and slowly, and monitor the girl's reaction (is she uncomfortable or recoiling). You don't want any Me Too bullshit thrown at you, but you also need to sack up and be a man. It's a tightrope act.

Anyway if she's already given you shit for not kissing her. You better REALLY turn on the male sexuality for Round II and up the ante.

You are a man. A SEXUAL BEING. As a man, you have sexual desires. You desire women. You like to kiss and fuck women (I presume). You make no apologies for your desires.

There you go. Be comfortable with yourself, your sexuality, and women. That's all you need. I understand that's tough without much experience.

ANYWAY

Next date ... when you first see her ... square up to her ... look her deep in the eyes ... say "so you want to kiss me hmm?" ... slowly put your hand on her back or gently on the back of her head (so she's not really surprised at what's about to happen) then go in and kiss her.

Whether it's a quick kiss or a makeout session depends on the vibe, location, whatever. You'll see what happens/ feels right.

acquired_ · 2018-07-03T22:36:47+00:00

Focus on being relaxed and comfortable. Haha have fun, this is one of those things you don't want to plan ahead. Get close then go for it. I don't kiss with tongue first but if you want to, why not

judahman8 · 2018-07-04T00:47:56+00:00

I'd kiss her to start the date this time. As soon as you meet her give her a hug and a kiss on the cheek. Depending on where you are snd if you feel balsy then you could run your fingers up the back of her neck and to the roots of her hair. Grab her hair while looking into her eyes and say "do you want to kiss me right now" if she says no then say I didn't say you could, you just had that look in your eyes. If she says maybe then say lets find out.

I'd probably wouldn't say anything and I would just feel it out to see if I can go for the kiss but you should probably use a classic kiss close. This is how I would start the date. You want to try to sleep with her on this next date. Don't think for a second that a kiss will be enough. It's ok if you don't sleep with her but you better try my dude.

Anyways you should be really touchy feely. Sit beside her not across from her if you go somewhere to eat or something. Look up the question game in google and play it so you can have good fun conversation that will lead to talking about sex naturally. Have an excuse for her to come into your house. Like to play 64 or to show her something or to smoke weed.

Really you just need to esculate and try to go all the way. Don't be worried about getting turned down, be worried about not making a move. If she likes you already then you can get away with just about anything so why hesitate.

sd2iv · 2018-07-05T02:57:12+00:00

The easiest way is building up the physical touch. Just going in for a kiss can be a pretty big jump. It certainly works sometimes, but its much easier to escalate up to it. If you have already touched her arm a bunch, grabbed her hand leading her through a crowd, given her a hug, touched her hair, touched her thigh for half a second, had your arm around her shoulder, it is much easier to kiss her. Look up the kino escalation ladder. I would start off your next date with a big hug, followed by more general touching. At some point, not the end, I'd motion her to come over to her and if she asks why say 'I want to give you a kiss'. As a general guideline, I'd avoid waiting to the end of a first date for a kiss, as it puts much more pressure on the moment than earlier in a date.

Silky-love · 2018-10-28T05:10:22+00:00

Update: We still together, you guys gave him some good tips, but please keep helping my man out c:

Title	Beginner need help on multiple areas, like creating tension
Author	Raw_Chaos
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Date	July 3, 2018 6:44 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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