Contradictions...

WIA20XX · 2018-07-14T12:24:35+00:00

Men only care about looks. Hence the beauty industry is in the billions.

Women care about looks, money, status, fame - but most of all behavior.

If no pickup stuff is involved, looks catch her attention, and she then evaluates the man's behavior.

Tall good looking guys with "poor" behavior
- stammer.
- no eye contact.
- passive not active.
- submissive not dominant.
- low self esteem not confident.
- pessimistic, not optimistic.

Etc

These good looking guys lack the behavioral component, and the girl doesn't feel good about them. Some of these guys do get laid, but the girl does all of the work. And when the girl gets bored, or meets a man of action, she drops him.

What most guys on this sub don't realize is that how you behave and how your behavior makes her feel ends up being far more important than how you look. That's why an average height guy can get with chicks that are "out of their league"

Every guy that actually learns pickup doesn't change much looks wise. But he acts different than he used to, and often acts differently than most other men. That's what works.

It is much harder to change your behavior than it is to go to the gym, get a haircut, and wear cool clothes.

hunterpua · 2018-07-14T14:25:16+00:00

If you understand statistics at all you'd know nothing is ever 100%. Just because there are some people here that do everything right but still fail doesn't mean this doesn't work. Quit waiting until you see a 100% success rate before you take action because it ain't ever gonna happen and I have a feeling that deep down you know that but are just looking for every excuse not to act.

Quit trying to "get it" and just start doing. Psychologists understand everything that happens in game probably better than any PUA does so they "get it" at a much higher level but they don't get laid left and right like a good PUA does because they study psychology more than they use it.

Stop thinking and do something.

oyoungpadawan · 2018-07-14T06:47:22+00:00

I'm 29 and I was totally ripped from 18-22. I was also a virgin at 22 and could not for the life of me get laid.

Here is a list of some of the things that held me back.

-boring

-insecure

-dressing like shit

-no own place

-no social life

-no hobbies

-no car

-no experience either sexual or life in general

-no stories to tell

-no conversation skills

-thirsty for sex

-often focusing on one girl

-and many many more

I have fixed all of these and while there is still much to learn I am doing ok now. Fucked a bunch of girls this year and met alot of interesting people. Some cool hobbies etc...

I do not have my muscles back yet, I had become overweight and only lost my belly.

NOW I could put those muscles from the past to good use. And I'm slowly regaining them.

Also there is a friend of our family that we see couple of times a year. He's a lone wolf 55 yo or something and slays 20-40 years old pussy.

He's broke af and manages to travel the world on dollars. He's just fit,not even athletic but he can turn rooms with his stories, extremely charismatic. He does better then I do...

Title	Contradictions...
Author	Aeon199
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	July 14, 2018 4:29 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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