Always struggling to go for the kiss

Kingtorythegreat · 2018-07-14T23:34:28+00:00

Google triangular gaze

judahman8 · 2018-07-15T02:31:03+00:00

It shouldn't be awkward and it shouldn't feel like you are putting it all on the line. The key here is micro kino esculation. The concept is basically like you are esculating touching her in small increments so the next touch isn't a big deal from the last touch. For example, If I rub noses with a girl then kissing her isn't going to be awkward because we are already almost kissing.

high five, back of the hand touch
hand on shoulder,
hugs
feeling her arms, arm link
hand holding
leg touching, lower back touch
neck touch, pelvic touch
hair pull, inner thigh touch, ass touch
lips touching, bite, lick, Eskimo kiss
makeout

That's like a basic outline for the levels of kino. I'm a lways at at least a 7 before I kiss a girl but usually I rub my fingers up the back of their neck and grab the roots of their hair while I say something like "you know what I miss about having long hair, this feeling right here."

With kino you know when you can go for the kiss. In fact I can walk up to a girl and not say a word. Just start esculating kino really quickly. Look her in the eyes and grab her hand, then pull her in close by her lower back and touch her neck. Then grab her hair and kiss her in like 5 seconds. She will stop me at some point before the kiss if she doesn't want it and I will just take a step back. But it wont be a rejection, it will be smooth.

There is no reason to put it all on the line. You should know she's going to kiss you back. I have a bunch of kiss close routines but I never actually need to use them. The classic one is to look in her eyes and say "do you want to kiss me?" If she says no then say I didn't say you could you just had that look in your eyes, then change the subject. Its rejection proof. If she says maybe or something then say lets find out and kiss her.

3 iois and level 7 kino is basically a green light. There's really no guessing like this. And yoi should probably be in full isolation as well. Shes probably not going to makeout with you infront of all her friens unless its just that type of party lol. last time I got rejected from a kiss I can tell that she actually wanted to kiss me but it was just too abrupt. She wasn't use to me touching her yet. But I fixed that problem and I've never had a girl reject a kiss ever since that night. Most importantly I've never even been slightly nervous about going for the kiss, I'm already positive she's going to kiss me back.

samraat65 · 2018-07-14T22:40:42+00:00

I'm not experienced but I recently kissed a girl on the first date and I did it by making eye contact and even though the angle was awkward I just went in for it abruptly and she reciprocated. Just say fuck it, if there is mutual attraction, she wants you to kiss her as bad as you do, but she's gonna hold back until she finally gives in.

Geron9 · 2018-07-15T00:22:13+00:00

I went on 2 1st dates this week. The first one, I got a head turn and she told me she doesn't kiss on the first date. Just smile/laugh and pretend it didn't happen. The other one, went for it and we made out a bunch of times during our 1.5hour park convo.

Guess what, both times going for the kiss was awkward as fuck. There's no way to make it like the romance movies. It's not going to be smooth, magical transition. There was so much shit going on in my head. "Should I do it?" "My lips are dry... maybe I shouldn't". You just got to go for it. Triangle gaze > do it.

I made a rule to myself that I always go for the 1st date make out (NOT AT THE END OF THE DATE). The onus is on them to deny me, cuz I'm a fiend for some lips. :)

Title	Always struggling to go for the kiss
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Date	July 14, 2018 9:51 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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