I'm a loser, AFC, minor successes and such crushing failures so hard I'd want to give up on the game

judahman8 · 2018-07-17T13:03:19+00:00

There is no time to focus on failure. If you arn't doing something right then fix it. In baseball you are considered successful if you hit the ball less then half the time. In Street Fighter you will loose a godly amount of times before you get good. To get rich you only really need one win. Life is mostly failure, the winners are the ones who don't let failure detour them from getting what they want.

I can tell if someone is currently a loser by how much they complain. What are you complaining about? You said that you did everything wrong and the result was you didn't get the girl. So fucking do it right next time!! When I get blown out I laugh about it because it's my fault and it falls on me alone to fix it. I figure out where I went wrong and I fix it.

Do you really expect to do things wrong and get what you want? If you touch fire then you will get burnt, only an idiot would complain about the fire. Use the fire properly so you can get what you want from it.

A crushing failure is when you do everything right and it doesn't work out. When you score a tripple double and your team still looses over something out of your control. You went out and turned over the ball a bunch of times and didn't play defense and just didn't do anything. You don't even deserve to be down about it because you can hardly even call that effort. You should be fired up to improve after a pathetic game like that.

If you give up after playing that weak ass game then you are even more of a loser and I have no respect for people like that. I respect someone who is trying and never gives up. You are doing thing half ass. You are putting in half ass effort and less then half ass execution. You are probably half assing your entire life. Sort your fucking life out mate.

If your thinking about dying then at least actually give it all you got first. You're like a little kid that gets upset that he can't beat a certain level of a game so he ups and destroys his system. Play that shit until you win. Figure that shit out and beat it. Stop being a little bitch and feeling sorry for yourself. We are all playing this game, you arn't alone. The game can be beat so beat it you little bitch.

robotmoogabi · 2018-07-17T11:02:33+00:00

I always remind myself that there will likely be more successful times at some point going forward.

I only ever cold approach to meet girls and i'm not tall or handsome, and so I get some BRUTAL rejections alamost every time I try. It's like girls nowadays, especially here (UK), take pride in rejecting guys in fronts of their friends and can really be super cruel. I've opened with friendly openers and been told ''Go away, you're ugly'' on LOTS of occasions lol. As recently as last week that happened, in fact. It's like they get 'girl points' for being harsh and they get power from being seen to be rejecting guys.

Sometimes I feel awful about myself, but then last night I got a makeout (only a makeout unfortunately although I know from experience that I could have banged her if I had logistics sorted) with a fairly hot Polish girl and now I feel kind of optimistic and happy lol.

Every feeling is temporary really. Whenever I feel crap I tell myself that it's just a temporary state and that all of my thoughts are being filtered by that current 'bad mood' which amplifies everything else.

Chamizo4 · 2018-07-17T16:59:18+00:00

Super conservative Christian background.. she wouldn't kiss me...[ yet I saw another guy go at it.with her and she didn't reject him. Major red flag I brought it up and she apologized she said she didn't really know.him)...

https://i.redd.it/mzf1cqsfkxiz.jpg

Ironchar · 2018-07-17T09:00:56+00:00

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Ironchar · 2018-07-17T15:39:57+00:00

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hoonanimaka · 2018-07-18T20:56:20+00:00

Honestly I feel like in your situation you would benefit from having a coach to help you. I'm sure there's a lot of easy fixes you can make that you don't see yourself. You're open to learning so I think you just need a little guidance.

Title	I'm a loser, AFC, minor successes and such crushing failures so hard I'd want to give up on the game
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Date	July 17, 2018 8:51 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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