I'm just curious I've been all about being outcome independent lately but I've also noticed a pattern of being successful people adopting a positive / optimistic one. In my experience me being indifferent has led me to become more pessimistic since part of me was still needy so working on that truly not giving a fuck.

Here is one example when you approach a cute girl would you expect to charm and win her over or just have zero expectations and be like what happens happens. I'm going out tonight and Sunday with the mindset that I expect to have a good time. Not going to focus on getting women just going to go with the flow so maybe the right approach is to adopt a bit of both mindsets. Will share a field report with my experiences sometime Monday.