how the fuck do i game if i look young for my age...

PEthrowaway956 · 2018-08-07T22:26:08+00:00

it's led to shit like me not even bothering to go out at night and flirt....or obsessive compulsive selfie taking.....dude it is so fucking frustrating but still that is me living in a reactive vs active mindset

This is exactly the stuff that you need to recognise as you begin typing it and smash delete like a maniac. When you openly say stuff like this, you need to recognise that it's not 'IT's led to this' -> it's you've let it lead to this and make you feel that way, subsequently assuming the reality of whatever 'it' is and buying in to it. Just stop or ima smack yo son.

One of the best quotes I've ever read from RSD Tyler is '

"If the issue doesn’t exist to you, it won’t exist to other people" (e.g. the idea of being bald, skinny, fat, low-income, etc)'

it's absolutely 100% true.

2018-08-08T07:59:34+00:00

I'm 27 and people still often judge me around 20-22 at times, babyface (especially when i shave).. small & skinny. I have 3 FWB that are 30, 31 & 35 years old that i see every few days.

You know what makes you look attractive and manly? By being so.

I stopped looking in the mirror, i gained life experience, I put away my ego, i only focused on that which was important (my passions) and everything took a turn for the best. My mentality changed and it attracted these girls along the way. I didn't want too show the world who i was, I wanted the world to show me what it had to offer.

Change your mentality and girls WILL find you attractive, regardless of how you look. Trust me, I now also understand how unimportant looks really are. If you clean yourself up and you wear proper clothing with a good odor, you already look very attractive.

People often think You need to have some ridiculous form of game to attract woman, but I can guarantee you, you do not.

bigmantingjones · 2018-08-15T14:49:38+00:00

You look old as shit

StephCurryMustard · 2018-08-07T22:24:34+00:00

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BeeLow0519 · 2018-08-08T04:54:31+00:00

Same here man but i do not let it bother me. Work on your inner game and handle those shit tests. It’ll happen when you act and carey yourself past your appeared age.

Chamizo4 · 2018-08-08T13:24:22+00:00

Is a fucking gift.

g4lile0 · 2018-08-08T18:57:32+00:00

Same "problem" here, I'm 27 and ppl always tell me that I look at most 20. I completely understand the problem about being taken not that seriously, but trust me dude, seriously at the end it's all a matter of self-confidence, nothing else! Moreover, this thing gives me lots of opportunity of funny opener and conversation. You can usually escalate very easily from a "ohh you look so young!" by answering "Yo, but I have all the experience of a 24 yo, isn't that awesome?" ( wink wink included ).

TGMurray · 2018-08-07T21:52:10+00:00

Dude in a few years it will be a gift. Just own it for now, be confident in it and girls will love you for it

fourthwallmotionless · 2018-08-08T02:18:47+00:00

I'm pushing to 40s and I still tell girls I'm in my late 20s...like 24 is prolly the youngest I'd say and the funny thing is I can pass for it and don't act like it and have your shit together. Some girls will never know as long as you own it. Protect that secret like your Batman. Dude if I was your age, I'd totally trade places with you. Younger ones from 19-22 just seems to not care about your finances and they'd be happily willing to spot you if you're broke. And they are just more pleasant to be around with. I mean not to smart and cultured but why would you wanna be around that. Dating girls around my age it's just too much hassle. The ones in their late 20's- 30s, they have such higher standards, they screen you inside and out like what kinda car do you drive, your job, if you have your own place, your social circle, etc. They know they are nearing that the wall and their biological clock is ticking and they are hunting for a provider to lock in.

mamillousfromthebook · 2018-08-08T01:00:06+00:00

I too have a baby face. I tske it as a compl8ment wtf. I always say yrah when im 40 ill look 30. Or if she's trying ro be rude I'll be like "I'll probably be more attractive in my 40s than you are in your prime." And smile. Don't react negatively wtf baby faces are blessed.

Title	how the fuck do i game if i look young for my age...
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Date	August 7, 2018 9:25 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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