Howdy all,

I'll type what's on my mind and if you guys spot any red flags let me know.

Basically met girl through a friend, didn't know she was only 17 (for reference, I'm only 19 so the age rule works out well.) We're both virgins so that's an important fact. Ego of an angel, doesn't drink, smoke, party, has to be home at 11.. if you get my vibe. But there are no unicorns so I tread lightly.

I don't like texting but I didn't want to be borderline autistic so this lead to late night calls with her on the weekdays while watching Netflix and doing chores at home (Let's be real, I'm not going out to drink/game every night for a month straight) I'd text here and there when I'm free but always disappear for a few hours because I'm busy, which I see nothing wrong about. Logistics were hairy since I got her number during winter break so we were both busy. After the holidays, we met up three times in a row and got physical instantly. Ice skating, NYE for a few hours (I ditched her to go get whiskey dick with some chick. See recent post for lol's), we met for dinner/coffee, and tonight we watched Netflix in her basement after going out to dinner, with her parents.

Everything has been decent so far. She has a job, a car, cooks, insists on paying for everything. A bit sarcastic but that's how I am at times as well so she mimics me. Decent body, not braindead, has goals that don't include me, she has a pulse.. good things. She's very jealous about where I go, who I hang out with but I always shut her out with stupid excuses (I'm volunteering at the rock shelter / pilates class). Always comments on how closed off I am and my stupid jokes which I use to deter her questions. Obviously, as you can see, I'm sorta aiming for an LTR but not at the same time. Knee jerk reaction is to tell me to fuck off because I haven't had sex with her yet, which is what I'm waiting for before I go exclusive and stop gaming other chicks. Everything has been decent so far, the only thing is that she quite insecure and has anxiety about her body. Typical decent looking girl with a little extra on her arms and stomach, which I don't really see a big deal about, but she doesn't like being touched on her stomach. (redflag?)

What my problem seems to be is that I'm not exactly sure how to escalate with a virgin who isn't openly sexual. Like I said, lots of kissing, touching her boobs/butt jokingly but not seriously, but she's never had sex and kind of inexperienced, much like myself. In short, she's trying to act like we're in a relationship in some weird way. Not in a clingy, annoying way but is obviously pulling strings for the LTR (hence dinner with parents, which I decided upon last second because her dad was RP as fuck). Stuff like taking snapchats while cuddling and sending it to her beta orbiters( lots of male friends) , telling her friends about me (I'm pretty infamous in her social group and they write short stories about me, yeah fucking weird.)

The good news is that I'm pretty much emotionally detached. She could disappear tomorrow and I wouldn't care because no sex = no value. Weird thing is that she is leaving for the summer to work at an all-girls camp, which I assume is the reason for her social weirdness sometimes. She's also leaving for college in a place far away so I'm out of the picture no matter what. Basically, a mini-LTR where neither of us will invest emotions but invest our company I guess? This makes things kind of dry, weird for reasons unknown. I don't plan to bring anything regarding a relationship up ever nor will I say anything that indicates that I'm interested in one either. Beg for my exclusivity and prove your value.

tl;dr Got her hooked, not sure how to escalate physically since she's not a cumdumpster, and she's socially shy. My current plan to just isolate her and start feeling her up where she's comfortable and see if she consents, which I will record on my phone as well. Trouble being that she's young, I take care of my parents so my place is off limits. Her mom works at home mostly and her dad travels a lot. If I build my trust enough, I might be able to stay over? They are pretty fucking overprotective. Typing all this out, it seems like too much work, too much invested, but I can't think of any better way of losing my virginity with someone I actually enjoy being around / find attractive and is also inexperienced.

What say you?