Anybody in here who gets laid regularly, 2-3+ girls a month got advice? Problem with this sub.

ninja1818 · 2018-08-17T22:02:05+00:00

Social life is out 1 night a week for dinner or club. I usually swing by a high target singles bar once a week.

I game alone. I never. ever. club. to meet women. If you go to a club I would take a sure lay, otherwise it's a waste of time and money. Find better places to meet girls. Bookstore, coffee shop, anywhere you can strike up a conversation without screaming.

I cold approach a large number of women. I force myself to chat up every single female I encounter. Cashier at the clothes shop. 'Hey how ya doing.' This kind of low risk encounter is critical for practice. You have to get your banter down Before that dime is walking by.

I have used Tinder and hated it. The women on there seem to be wanting a quick hit or nothing. I'm not into that and rarely do ONS, so it's not effective for me. Online dating sites the same except it's marriage or nothing. All of my recent success has been from in person meeting.

Tell more? Any man that wants to date numerous women needs to orient his life to make that happen. I see it all the time with men struggling to find dates. I ask 'where you go'? and the answer is some version of "Sausage Fest Bar or Sausage Fest Sport event' yeah. great.

A man has to start looking around and realizing where women actually go. Example in my area there is a Sewing/Fabric store right by a pet store which is right by a nice Coffee place. I tend to swing by there on a Saturday or Sunday afternoon. Why? because girls with pets and girls who sew might stop at there for a coffee while shopping. duh. Another place is Wine bars with after work happy hours. Go to a place that may have women come by and Ask-A-Waitress (not a waiter... practice remember!) about when there are more females around. Take her advice tip her well. And if she's working the night greet her by name and now you have a new friend. And a girl that can let you know if a small group of girls might be interested in some company.

Another location that is greatly overlooked is any place around a college. I see tons of young ladies alone at the coffee shop, the book store. Studying. Go there young man! Go and actually watch the females around you. If the young lady is glancing around and not buried in her computer or a book She. Wants. To. Meet. A. New. Friend. go help the lady out.

CharacterNote · 2018-08-17T16:23:30+00:00

it's super dependent on your location and how often you go out (and of course your looks) rather than your 'skill'

I had what I considered a good run last year and got 12 lays which was like 1 per month, but I only go out once per week and only approach a few girls per night (approach anxiety :() so not a terrible hit rate.

But if a good looking guy is living in Vegas or something, he can get laid most nights with ZERO 'game'

buttgoogler · 2018-08-17T19:05:35+00:00

No tinder, only day-gaming by myself and clubbing with my friends once in two weeks or something. Also gym 3 times a week, swimming and being on my grind in general.

Archesik · 2018-08-18T01:57:18+00:00

20 year old college student here. I live in one of Europe’s smaller capital cities. On average I would say I get with 4-5 different girls a month. I mainly use Tinder or I meet girls through common friends. I don’t see myself as very attractive. I’m probably somewhere around average in looks but I try to differentiate myself in the way I dress. I don’t go out to clubs I prefer bars, mainly because the atmosphere is different and I can’t dance to save my life.

The best advice I can give you is that you need to: be interesting, have something in common to talk about with the girl and you have to catch her eye (stand out)

I’ve had Tinder for about 2 years on and off. I’ve noticed that since I changed up my style, changed my haircut, and made a semi-original bio I’ve been getting a lot more matches. If you need advice for Tinder I recommend r/tinder you can get your profile reviewed over there which I did once.

While messaging on Tinder just be yourself, it’s hard to judge a person by the way they text, but if it doesn’t workout just move on. Don’t try to be pushy. Like I’ve mentioned before try to find a common ground. I usually start off by mentioning something about her bio/photos/playlist. Just try to be unique.

When you meet up with her try to pick a place your familiar with. Maybe a bar you go to from time to time. Maybe a restaurant your friend works at. Do not go to a movie theater, art gallery or anywhere that you need to be quiet or any place that is too crowded. I try to have the first date in the evening so I usually recommend a bar.

Let her talk but also don’t be quiet the whole time, if your aim is to get laid, she won’t get in bed with you or even walk into your apartment unless she knows you at least a little bit. This is great advice from my mom. “Try to talk about something you’re passionate about, this really captivates a girl.”

If the date is going well, it’s not too late and you feel like this can escalate forward. Try to invite her over to your place for a movie and some wine. If she says no that’s fine. You won’t always fuck on the first date.

If a second/third/fourth date is needed don’t keep on taking her to the same place. Try being innovative. It really depends on where you live. So this is all up to you. Now a movie might be a good idea but not always. Try not to meet only for the movie. Maybe grab a coffee before, or a drink after.

That about sums it up, couple of key rules to keep in mind. Always be yourself. Don’t be too pushy, a little bit is ok but it’s a fine line. Talk about stuff your passionate about. Pick a good date spot. Don’t invite her over for sex, invite her over for a movie, wine, dinner that you made.

Here is my tinder profile for reference:

https://imgur.com/a/fbzKJ1Y

To be honest I need to update my photos because they’re a bit outdated but I haven’t had the time to do that.

Edit: Grammer/Spelling

mat123_ · 2018-08-17T15:36:29+00:00

Where you live by dude montreal by any chance? Pm me

2018-08-18T04:27:43+00:00

My social life is mostly going to bars or out to eat with a friend. Most of what I do involves some form of alcohol, and my full blown alcoholism is being realized presently actually.

I primarily game alone, my friends aren’t very good at talking to women, why risk having them fuck up my game?

I do not cold approach day game bullshit.

I do not use dating apps like tinder.

Picking a girl from tinder or just walking along, poses the risk of wasting a lot of time on one person who may or may not suck ass. I just live my life, and if I happen to make conversation with a girl and it’s stimulating, I’ll pursue it further.

But most of what I pull is from a bar or club. It’s just too easy.

“Do you wanna go back to your place or mine?” Is the line I typically use when I want to have sex. I dont plan on using that line, none of what I do is rehearsed. I just assume these girls want to have sex with me, and act like it.

chronosthetitan · 2018-08-18T06:04:48+00:00

I’m at the point of getting hired guns. Was good at one night stands by high school and am a natural, your welcome to pm me.

chronosthetitan · 2018-08-18T06:18:19+00:00

what is your social life like?

have a few friends and many more aquintences.

How much time do you do game alone?

most of the time, even know another guy can't throw me off my game its better to not have the girls bitch that your friend is weird.

Do you club with friends every Fri and Sat?

I personally hate night clubs because they are highly inconvenient places, I get super annoyed with having to wait on some dumbass who doesn't realize whats around them to be able to obtain drinks or deal with packed clubs that are almost impossible to move around in, as I live in a big city. prefer strip clubs,breasturants waitresses as your gaurentted quality which isn't guaranteed if you go to a bar or night club.

What do you say to bring The girl home?

? as in process? whats necessary? specific wording?

How many girls do you cold approach a month?

thats only necessary if the guy is socially awkward, those who are socially savvy don't need to approach as many women.i generally can get most, not all of the ones im interested in. had game a majority of my life and was never weird.

Use tinder?

I use it to go hit on girls from their linked social media accounts.

Does your main friend group have girls in it?

have female friends, but am highly uninterested in hearing their stories about relationships and whinning that they often do because of being insecure. so basically I seduce women and don't maintain relationships with all women just those who don't get on my nerves.

I generally come here because most guys need guidance and lack instinct that I have.

CharacterNote · 2018-08-17T17:03:53+00:00

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Title	Anybody in here who gets laid regularly, 2-3+ girls a month got advice? Problem with this sub.
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Date	August 17, 2018 3:13 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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