so this girl, let's call her Michelle, has been friends with me for years. She's seen my growth from being a complete beta bitch to a strong confident man in progress, witnessed the aftermath of my break up with high school sweetheart(aka kardashian wannabe), and the best part is she invited me, along with a few friends, to a college party a while back and was completely dumbfounded by the amount of girls I was opening/hooking up with.
So now that you have a bit of context you can get a better idea of my situation.
At the more recent party she was pissed off at me for some stupid shit about her never being thanked for using her fake ID to buy us beer all the time. So because of her bitchyness, I just brought my own drinks from my house as a kind of "fuck you" to her for losing her shit over spilled milk.
So the night goes and we finish a few games of beer pong, and while Shes sitting out she blurts out something along the lines of,
"Hey! Where's that green shirt?!(it's a decently tight shirt that shows off muscles pretty well. She's expressed interest in it before) Or your American shirt?!(make shift tank top where I cut the collar and sleeves off for a 4th of July party, but I still use the shirt for when I go to the gym) What am I supposed to look at now?!"
"Shut up, you're just horny" She blushes, verbally agrees, then try's to change the subject haha.
So after the pong games were done; somehow this other girl there named Lori, that I've previously been with, and is also best friends with Michelle, suggested we play spin the bottle. Michelles body language changed quick, she leaned towards me the whole time, and whenever we got each other she visibly got happy and instead of just kissing me, she straight up made out with me instead. This happened a few times before we cleaned up and went upstairs to play some Kings.
Before we get settled Michelle goes to bathroom and by coincidence I have to go to. So I'm waiting for her to get out and I'm annoying her by knocking on the door until she opens the door and screams "what!? "
"Shut up you'll wake the neighbors! "
This is where I start slowly moving towards her while maintaining eye contact.
"Bxredpill, no, no why are you looking at me like that?" Grab her by the waist "Like what?"
" you know exactly what your doing and you need to stop!! Loris right in the other room, I can't do this to he--"
I interrupt her and just start making out hard with her for a minute before she pulls away and starts hamstering about her needing to stay away from me because of what I do to her. And this is where I screwed up, I just let it go. I stopped pursuing it at the party. But For some reason I get overcome with this feeling that I NEED to fuck her. Like my body is ordering me to carry out a mission lol.
So, fellas, what should I have done in this situation to make for a better outcome? I was thinking of inviting her over to smoke/chill and say "I need to get some revenge on smash bros. Since you beat me last( an inside thing with our group)" and from there bring up the party , which only happened on Saturday, and letting her know upfront that it's clear were both attracted to eachother, and why should we fight it? I would also stress that I'm really not looking for anything serious, just some fun.
Help me out fellas, I have zero experience with escalating within a friend group.
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