Post date/lay game

thevaluelifestyle · 2018-08-20T17:24:42+00:00

They're just flaking most likely. They are looking for just a one time thing, you are average in bed, or someone else has came along who seems to be more suitable for them. It is either one or a combination of those.

WIA20XX · 2018-08-20T18:22:48+00:00

99% - Average sex is heavy petting, trading oral, missionary/doggie/cowgirl/prone bone to finish. The emotional tenor can go from awkward to funny to sweet to romantic to athletic to animalistic.

Guys in the 99 are still figuring out how to get the girl to do some particular thing they see online. A whole lot of negotiation and bargaining.

That's the 99%. If the girl is in love with you, often times regular sex is fairly epic.

1) The 1% sex game is either dick size/stroke or some sort mental thing for her where the sex is more than just P into V.

So the PUA styles crib a lot from typical female fantasies, if they want to take the "ultimate sex provider" angle. Role-playing, BDSM, dress up. They start out spicing it up.

Cosmopolitan magazine tips are projections of common female fantasies. If she really wanted to turn her guy on, she'd recruit her best friend to join. But their magazine gives you hints at ideas.

2) The other angle is that you're really a cool ass mfer, and she just likes being around you.

A lot of guys can lick her pussy, but she doesn't care to watch him play PUBG.

3) On the "alpha" side, the play is to not contact her, don't let her sleep over.

If that is who you naturally are, kicking her out and waiting for her to contact you first is easy. The "Alpha" doesn't chase.

She wants to keep fucking the douche bag to get back at him. Most guys don't make her do the walk of shame, there is some psychological stuff going on, where she keeps fucking to get his approval.

Ronaldo-CR7- · 2018-08-20T18:43:31+00:00

The sex wasn’t great and you sound needy messaging them right away. Act like you have more important stuff going on and other options

Jacob_961 · 2018-08-21T06:08:41+00:00

In the same boat as you.

Rule of thumb. You need to at least sleep with the girl 3 times to have a reasonably good chance of retaining her.

Last girl I slept with 3 times and the sex was good and I still got ghosted. So not fool proof but 1 times of sleeping with you can be rationalized as a mistake.

WB2E · 2018-08-20T17:57:47+00:00

Perhaps you tried to arrange the hookup too early?

Maybe try to text her on like Thursday/Friday to build the attraction and momentum again for that night or the next night.

Title	Post date/lay game
Author	bigbagbenny
Upvotes	5
Comments	5
Date	August 20, 2018 5:07 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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