Should have posted this one a few weeks ago. There’s girls in my life I should have approached also, so…...fuck it.
School is now in session. Those lush green lawns and red brick buildings are crawling with hotties. I’m seeing shawty-shorts and halter tops as far as the eye can see.
And what are you doing about it?
If the answer is “nothing.” If the answer is “thinking about it.” If the answer is “scoping it out” or “taking my time” or “hemming and hawing” or “getting onitis” or anything similar. Then it’s time to get your shit together.
If you read my previous article on How To Walk Into A Bar, you saw that the most successful guys start talking to chicks immediately. If you sit around, drink a few beers, wait for a nice buzz, chat with your friends; then when you finally do start approaching, it’s way, WAY, harder.
Walking onto a college campus is conceptually the same thing. If you wait to get “settled in,” weeks will go by without you even realizing it. And everything gets harder the longer you wait. Not only that, lots of girls are already hooking up with guys who moved faster than you.
So follow the game plan below and get out there TODAY, and start approaching girls.
Now, so you don’t screw things up and become the guy who gets rejected and has to sit next to that girl in class for the rest of the semester, make sure to check out my first article on the College Approach.
After you read that, remember: Never Try To Close On The College Approach.
You’re goal is to make friends, acquaintances, connections and build a big social network as fast as possible. Big social networks lead to lots of girls. Hot girls. The girls everyone wants. Because those girls look for guys to hook up with in those social circles. They don’t look for random dudes who try to “ask them out” randomly around campus.
So Here’s Your Gameplan:
- Get your social media in order stat. You should be doing this already. But if you’re not, get some recent pictures posted of you (1) looking good, and (2) having fun with other people (particularly girls, if possible). If a girl meets you through a social circle and doesn’t jump your bones that same night, then she’s going to stalk your social media. I don’t give a fuck what anyone says about that. She will. So get your pics up.
- Start approaching 5 girls a day for 10 days. Start TODAY. You’re just trying to make friends and build your network. There’s nothing to reject if you don’t try to close. And there’s nothing weird about approaching people on campus just to say “what up?”
- Go to parties. If you don’t know where any are, ask. If you’re not getting invited to any yet, there is no shame in asking. Ask your friends. Ask guys in the dorm. Ask chicks you’re talking to: “What parties you going to this weekend?” She’ll tell you. You say: “cool, maybe I’ll see you over there.” Then find out where it is, grab some wings and get over there.
- Slow down your walk through campus. Stroll. Like you get laid regularly. Also, watch other guys, you’ll see guys scurrying around like there’s some big fucking rush in life. Scurrying guys are not getting laid. When chicks you’re meeting with the College Approach see you walking like your balls are sore from getting bounced on too much, they’ll start taking notice.
- Cultivate your Abundance Mentality. There are hotties everywhere. Most of them are looking to hook up. In college girls are fickle as fuck. They’ll be interested in one dude today and another tomorrow. “Boyfriends” mean nothing (99% of the time). If a girl you’re College Approaching drops the “boyfriend line” (which she shouldn’t because you’re not trying to close). Just say “yeah, me too” and then just continue with whatever you were talking about before she said that. Still don’t try to close. Network. Network. Network. Act like you don't give a fuck.
- Throw a party. If you have a house with a couple dudes, throw a fucking party. Stock the coolers with as much of the cheapest beer you and your broke ass buddies can afford. Invite everybody. All the chicks you’ve been approaching. Make it an epic party. And (you didn’t hear this from me): A wild party that gets shut down by the po-po gets you and the boys a better rep for being a house full of fucking studs, than some lame ass shit where chicks so up and bail. So bring down the house, and you’ll be amazed at how many parties you start getting invited to.
- Keep approaching new chicks (and new people). Build the biggest network you can. Make building a network part of your curriculum. Treat it like a class. Literally make a project out of it. If you do it right, submit an article to the school newspaper like: How To Meet 500 People In 1 Month. Become an entrepreneur of networking on campus. Get your name out there. Everybody wants to know the guy who’s the king of campus networking. And guess who “everybody” includes. You got it: hot chicks.
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