How do you deal with having multiple girls you're seeing / talking to to at the same place?

hunterpua · 2018-08-25T18:44:31+00:00

The only escalation you should avoid in front of everyone is kissing and anything beyond that.

Things like grinding and ass slapping are within the boundaries and you want to do that with all the girls you know. I do that stuff with my female friends. This makes the girls you're seeing simply think you're a naturally flirty guy because you do it with everyone. This will make them understand that when you do escalate it doesn't automatically mean a girl is special, escalation becomes more about you just being you than it being about any individual girl.

You're also free to go home with any girl you want, this doesn't necessarily mean you will have sex and the other girls seeing you won't know for sure. When they ask you though, you have to tell them you guys had sex if you actually did and you have to be honest about your position to not get serious with anyone and see a lot of girls. They will understand. If these girls have been having sex for a few years they've probably seen a lot of dudes at a time too and some of them might currently be in that phase so you seeing multiple girls would be perfect.

Some girls will not be ok with that and stop seeing you. Those girls are just looking for something more serious so it wouldn't have worked out anyway.

Just be honest and don't cross a line man. Girls will appreciate and respect you more for that than if you acted like a pussy and try to hide who you really are. A lot of girls who were looking for something more serious from me and weren't down to share me with other girls have become really good friends of mine and have been the reason I met some of the hottest girls I've been able to sleep with. Occasionally, if they're single they'd even sleep with me so it all works out as long as you keep it real and don't force anyone to do anything they don't want to do.

WIA20XX · 2018-08-25T16:50:26+00:00

You're fucking up because you think if they are aware that you are popular they'll ALL leave you.

You basically haven't done your seduction homework.

Being known as social actually makes you MORE attractive.

Introduce them. Invite them to parties. Meet their friends. Introduce your friends to their friends.

Your problem is actually a gift.

Girls you don't know, wonder why you haven't talked to them.

ChocolateGlamazon27 · 2018-08-25T16:36:04+00:00

Depends what uni city you are in. When I was at uni, the guys who got a lot of babes knew how to go to different nights out and clubs in different parts of town to avoid this.

Make new friends in other social circles to decrease this

2018-08-25T19:13:16+00:00

It’s okay to be flirty with lots of girls, but at some point, you need to pick one and show her that you choose her and don’t want any of the other girls. Getting attention from lots of women is validating, but it’s not going to get you laid if you feed too much into that validation.

chronosthetitan · 2018-08-25T21:52:05+00:00

I’ve had scenarios where one girl knew 2 that I fucked, but all three girls didn’t know each other collectively. There’s degrees of separation, acquentices know about each other and are not necessarily close. Keep in mind, women are collaborators rather than competitors. If you tried to bring 2 girls you were sleeping with together then sparks fly in that instance and they would end up fighting over you.

2018-08-26T00:56:58+00:00

Quick story: I use to talk to this chick last year, went on a date, talked a bit afterwards then she ghosted me. Year later I'm on a date with a different girl, that girl from last year sees me, starts texting me saying she wants to hang out with me again a year later.

Moral is girls aren't like guys. Guys if we see a girl with another dude we just back off. Girls if they see a guy with a hot girl, that only makes the girl want you even more.

fuckingoddamnname · 2018-08-27T01:24:26+00:00

Friend of mine ran into this a lot. He would introduce them to each other. So rather than pretend the situation doesnt exist he embraced it. One of our mutual friends said "he knows how to manage his bitches"

Indeed he did.

Title	How do you deal with having multiple girls you're seeing / talking to to at the same place?
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Date	August 25, 2018 4:31 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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