How to show that youre attarcted to a girl during the date?

frocksoffantasy · 2018-08-29T22:55:54+00:00

The advice in this thread is bullshit.

As a hot woman that lurks this thread (mainly to get better at dating women), if any man tried to do the PUA stuff at me, I would totally know what he was doing and lose interest. I don’t appreciate being manipulated. I especially hate negging; that shit only works on girls who have low self esteem. You don’t want to date a girl with low self esteem; she will constantly be worried she looks fat or ugly or that you are looking at other girls because they are hotter than her, etc.

Be authentic. Give genuine nonsexual compliments like, “you have a great smile” or “I love your laugh”. Pay attention to what she says and respond accordingly. If you are trying to break the touch barrier, ask her to take a selfie with you, and if she says ok, lightly put your arm around her. If she leans into you and seems enthusiastic, you can ask her if you can kiss her cheek for a photo.

Follow up immediately after the date when you get home and say you had a great time and would like to go out again. Give specific Dates and times you are free. If she doesn’t respond or says something vague like she’s busy or doesn’t know her schedule, just be cool and say, “ok, text me when you want to hang out.” Then move on with your life if she doesn’t text. It was likely a brush off if she doesn’t give you details about her next availability.

forentertainments · 2018-08-29T18:01:55+00:00

Mm... I feel like "interested" would be a better word in this case. Attraction comes after meeting the person and getting to know them; not that "damn you're hot" kind of attraction that has no merit, really. With that being said, make sure to use body language! Some examples include: giving your undivided attention (i.e. not using your phone, mainly looking at her only; not to the extent of a creepy stare but whenever you guys are talking; positioning your body towards her so that your toes and torso are facing her.) These are just a few examples of making the person feel desired or important. Lastly, I'm sure you've heard this plenty of times; be yourself! You don't want to end up unintentionally fronting your personality just to suit the occasion/person.

scaredtocry · 2018-08-29T17:57:22+00:00

Not sure about your question but probably focus on her emotions rather than yours... if you are inside your head she'll sense it. It should be more important to get her attracted to you, this can be done by doing the basic stuff: making her qualify herself, negging her, getting her to invest in conversation, kino her and let her kino back.

Title	How to show that youre attarcted to a girl during the date?
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Date	August 29, 2018 5:38 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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