Hi Everyone,

I wanted to make a thread to list and share some of the methods the best PUAs use to attract girls. It would be welcome if people posted here as well, as I am by no means an expert and would like to learn what you guys do when on the pickup.

Here are a few things I have learnt that are supposed to be useful:

  • Triangulation- Useful for making girls think of you in a sexual way and can also be used to test whether it is the right time to go for a kiss.
  • Horizontal gaze- Similar to triangulation, if you look at her left eye (connected to the emotional brain side) first then her right and back and forth, she will have a release of emotions according to some books.
  • Qualification- Saying you look for a certain quality in women and then indicating to your target that she has this quality, is known to give attraction. Although don't look to do this too early on.
  • Negging and (False) Disqualification- Made famous by Mystery, the aim is to knock down the woman's social value so that in a night game setting she doesn't feel over-validated.
  • Cold/Warm Reading- Try making statements on anyone, even your new male friends, and you will notice how much interest you generated by making a conclusion about them, b. Especially with girls, as they like to hear people's opinions and why they think them.
  • Body Language- Having overly interested Body Language can express needy behaviour at times. Some good tricks include turning your back to the girl after she originally gave you a look of interest. In Daygame it's quite important to express your interest and perseverance by planting your feet and not really moving direction. However this can be mixed with leaning back later on or putting in teases such as, "This won't work out." Then acting as if you will walk away. In Nightgame it's possible to start a conversation but not initially facing her with your whole body (only do this when there's eye contact)
  • Thinking of sex around her- This is one of the weirdest on the list, I know. This concept was from 60. He says that whilst you are in the presence of a girl and in conversation with her, if you start thinking of banging her or sexual thoughts, she will reciprocate not knowing why. This is quite strange, but if a PUA says it maybe it worked for him

I got a few more and there's tonnes of stuff from people like Ross Jeffries and Adam Lyons. I will edit this post more to include them, when I have the time. But do comment down below.

Thanks