Have you ever rejected a woman who once rejected you?

nogared · 2015-01-26T02:50:50+00:00

Stop focussing on the past, the females that rejected us when we were losers were quite essentially the push we needed to finding trp and improving ourselves.

Can you imagine what would happen if we had gotten into LTRs or even married while being the people we were back then? A life of frustration and slavery to our 'unicorns' would only await us because of how misinformed we were.

Be thankful for your failures in the past because they are what led you down this path.

http://indulgy.com/post/EmuAdz8kL1/my-hero-comic-by-matt-rhodes

Also check this comic out. Notice the word that the artist ends the comic with. Stop focussing on your past.

InformalCriticism · 2015-01-26T03:31:37+00:00

Let's face it. The fact that we're here suggests that, ~~at some point in the past, we had trouble with~~ women are troublesome.

FTFY

RedPillGold · 2015-01-26T07:32:57+00:00

This isn't a perfect example but its a really good story that I think illustrates RP principles.

I was at a college party and met a girl, she was nothing special. Making out with her, had it in the bag. Get back to her dorm room and kept stopping me at taking her underwear off. "I don't do that" "I don't know you enough". Foolish me fails the sbit test and leaves after some making out and cuddling (this is clearly pre RP).

Next night same girl starts flirting. Tell her no, I'm not wasting my time to not have sex. I want sex. Starts getting upset that I'm ignoring her, starts following me everywhere telling me she'll fuck me blah blah blah. I'm not buying that shit she lost her chance. I'm talking to a friend when she, in the middle of a party shoves my hand down her pants. Tons of people watching me practically ignore her and continue a conversation with my hand on her vag. Not only that, she was literally wet through her underwear. Either way, I end up leaving the party to go elsewhere bc I'm not wasting another night not getting laid. I receive numerous calls and texts of her crying and being so upset... The kicker: "I'll be in my room crying, you can come if you want". Realistically Im fairly certain I could've went and fucked her, I didn't.

Tl;Dr - Dry as a bone "you can't touch me there" 24 hours prior, soaking wet begging for it the next night all because I said no to a girl. When you take away a woman's only power over men, you really shake their world up.

BPtoRP · 2015-01-26T05:09:05+00:00

RSD Tyler once joked about this: "HAH bitch, you went on a date with me back then? Fuck that's sad. I wouldn't have given me a second look."

Seriously though, I want to bring up an important point here. Dude, be honest, would you have it...ANY other way? Imagine hypergamy didn't exist and she loved you for the merits of your brain and the kindness of your heart. Would you remotely be the better person you are now? Would men be as competitive? Would men keep their game up even during relationships? Sure they're unnecessarily abusive as fuck but it comes from a good place. You shouldn't punish her, she simply acted upon her subconscious biological imperative. I'd pump and dump for my frail male ego, the other side of male competitiveness. ;)

a_nus · 2015-01-26T06:28:06+00:00

Yes. It honestly doesn't even feel as good as I fantasized it to back when I still liked the girl.

I just felt sorry for her, and a little bad inside. The key is that I don't have oneitis enough to give enough of a fuck to celebrate rejecting her. I actually don't give a fuck anymore.

FukknPissd · 2015-01-26T05:23:21+00:00

Fell in love with the girl next door, literally. She was the granddaughter of the old lady who lived next to me. Spent 10 years in the friendzone, tried many a time to get out of that, alas to no avail.

Both of us went overseas for a few years, she kinda peaked when she was 22, but a lifetime of rejection kept me burning to become more.

We both got back to our home country a few years later, and now she sees me for the man that I am, but at the same time i realize that she is not the person that I imagined her to be all those years, just another helpless woman looking for a man to take care of her. (Mind you, while growing up she was the kind of chick who would constantly rant about independence and how important it was for a woman to be her own person, etc. etc)

So I nexted the fuck out of her. Took up with a lady who was 10 yrs my senior, and an accomplished business woman, and found out what it was like to be with a truly motivated and developed woman.

SoundsLegitButWrong · 2015-01-26T06:25:35+00:00

I think your mentality is bad.

If a women rejects you forget her, dont hold out some revenge fantasy. Personally, I wish them the best and I move forward.

As for your question, depends on circumstances. If I blew it, I was a blue pill beta years ago I cant hold her responsible for my own mistakes. If she is now attracted to me if I wanted her sure id go for it. I have never been rejected for not being rich, but if this happened we are done since she is gold digger, so no I would have nothing to do with her because that is trouble. Build shouldnt matter, there are women who are fat who I would fuck if they lost weight. If we were together and she cheated she is done, no second chances. However, I wouldnt pump or dump her, I would just be truthful that I am not interested and not because I wanted revenge.

Your atitude indicates bitterness. I recommend not giving a fuck. If you are bitter at a woman you are clearly giving fucks. In some situations it might be warranted, you were married and she screwed you out of half your stuff, alimony, child support or did something really bad like stabbing you or something. However, being rejected is nothing to be bitter about, that shit happens and I reject women too for various reasons. It is nothing personal.

Luckyluke23 · 2015-01-26T06:41:32+00:00

a women who rejected me in the past inst even in my reality.

RunawayGrain · 2015-01-26T14:19:09+00:00

Yes, and it the only thing I got out of it was more anger. Consider that, when this happens, you have raised your SMV and status to a much higher level. She on the other hasn't found any higher branches to swing to, and has you pegged as a chump provider. That thought made me really mad, along with the fact that she wouldn't leave me the hell alone, even after I requested her to stop.

I look at the ex girlfriend like a poor man in a Ferrari dealership. Obviously he wants the car, but doesn't have the capital. Eventually the sales staff will ask him to leave because he is wasting valuable time in which they could make a sale.

Title	Have you ever rejected a woman who once rejected you?
Author	corvusdelicius
Upvotes	9
Comments	14
Date	January 26, 2015 1:43 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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