There's this really fine girl whose table I just so happen to sat at every morning during breakfast. Her friend always comes to greet her, but then leaves right away, so she's always alone (not counting her earphones).

I want to talk to her so bad it hurts, but I'm scared it might go terrible and I humiliate myself around everyone. But the thought of seeing her again and not saying anything is eating me alive.

I wouldn't consider myself a bad looking guy, but she looks like type of girl who hangs out with jocks (strong, confident men). I know it's cliche, but I can't stop feeling this way.

I have several friends that don't have this fear and can just go up and talk to any girl they want, and 9 times out of 10, they get them laughing, and whenever they meet again, the girl always looks so happy. That's what I want.

I just want to able to talk to anyone I want to and say what ever is on my mind and just be myself. I'm always so tense and careful--I want to be spontaneous. But I don't know how or where to begin.

Thanks if you've read it this far. All help's greatly appreciated.