How to Change your Race and Get Taller

Article 1 - How to change your race and get taller

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"Sorry I don't date Asian"

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"You're just not my type."

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"Let's just be friends."

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"I'm not that kind of girls."

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Have you ever felt like you're just not good enough?

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Have you ever felt like you're at a GENETIC DISADVANTAGE?

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And do you ever feel like no matter how much "inner game" work you work on, you never get over your crippling limiting beliefs like:

"White girls don't like me because I'm Asian."

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"They don't like me because I'm short."

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And my personal favorite: "I can't satisfy girls because my dick is too small."

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If any of these sound like you, stay tuned for this article series because I'm about to share with you how I overcame 21 years of low self esteem and developed narcissistic levels of confidence and self love in the span of 1 year.

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Having come from a position of being an Asian guy who was extremely unattractive, with almost every number flaking on me ALWAYS for months, to now getting the kind of consistent results and interactions I can be happy with (sleeping with more than 100 girls in the first 1.5 years of game. 95% white girls), I can tell you the truth past all the bullshit.

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This series will not be another replica of all the personal development theories out there, but rather a detailed analysis of my personal journey.

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I will break down the crucial principles, mindsets and stories to show you how I completely transformed my worldview and beliefs from an unanttractive and slightly nerdy Asian guy to the kind of guy who walks through life with confidence and gets hotties.

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To set the stage a little bit, I will talk about the place I came from.

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Some Asians grew up in English speaking countries, some grew up in Asia coming in an Asian cultured background and not speaking much English.

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The difference between the two may not be seemingly significant on the surface to you but definitely should be considered.

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Cultural values, individualistic vs collectivistic societies and values.

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More on this later…

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I grew up in Hong Kong, China. My parents are traditional, but open minded and cultured Chinese parents, so not really the stereotypical tiger Asian parents you may have heard of. Although always wanting the best for me and my brothers, they never made me feel unworthy or insignificant for falling short of their expectation. They always allowed us the freedom and choice to do what we want.

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Up until the age of 13, I actually identified myself as the extroverted kid in my group of Chinese social circle. I played soccer 4-5 times a week, and was the obnoxious and most out-going kid in the group. I would joke with the old lady at the bus stop, pretty much just interact with the world for no reason other than self amusement.

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However, this all took a change at the age of 13, when I changed school from an all Chinese local school to an Australian cultured international school in Hong Kong. For those of you who don't know, an international school is a private school usually for immigrants from other countries. Mine was about 50% Australians and 50% Australianised Chinese and Chinese.

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An extremely crucial factor here that determined my experience was that my English was absolutely horrendous. I had no idea what to expect going in. The only information I gathered about the western culture was from High School Muscial. And after binge watching High School Musical the summer before I changed school, I had made the resolution to try to hang out with the white kids in my school as much as possible because I admired how fun, carefree and passionate (Julien blanc lol) they were.

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And deep down, I had always felt that Chinese cultured people were mostly introverted and too self conscious when it came to socialising. People hold back their laughs. No one is fully themselves in group settings. Everyone cared too much about what people think.

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This is just a fraction of the cultural differences in most Asian societies.

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I wanted to experience something different. I wanted to prove that I can also rise to the top of a new social circle as I did before.

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But.

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My experience was something completely different. In the first few months, I experienced a MASSIVE cultural shock. I was the only Asian kid in my social circle of white Australian jocks in my year - the kind of kids who get sent to the principal office for trolling in class.

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People made a lot of racist jokes, and because I had never experienced something like that before and also saw highly of myself, I didn't know how to take it. I was very emotionally reactive. So they did it more and more, and started making jokes in front of everyone.

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I didn't know this is how Australians display affection and comraderie. It was a massive cultural shock to suddenyl feel like everyone was making fun of me. I became paranoid. I started seeing the worst scenarios in things, anticipating when the next racist joke would come.

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All this happened simply because I was a fucking kid. And kids sometimes don't have the right mindsets to deal with shit.

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And remember, my English was not good, so I didn't even have the ability to defend myself and verbally fight back.

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I remember the stifleness and boredom I felt in group settings during recess and lunch, because I didn't know how to properly express myself in English and didn't want to be laughed at for making a grammatical mistake.

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This slowly built up…

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And the weird thing is, I was popular. Girls liked me. The coolest guys in the year loved me. I got invited to everything. People thought I was getting girls when we went out drinking at 13/14.

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But my experience was TOTALLY different, because the cultural shock and misinterpretation of events had me carrying the lens of a victim. I interpreted everything as a personal attack for the first 3-4 years of my high school life.

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Thinking back to it now, I'm grateful for the experience, because it taught me one of the most valuable lessons.

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When I was 16, after crying the previous week after one of my good friends went too far bantering making fun of me in class, one day out of nowhere, I decided to just say:

"fuck it, if I can't change them. I'll just accept them."

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Everything changed after that day, I learnt the valuable lesson of being able to not take things so seriously and personally and just have fun. I started seeing the humour and appreciated the banter.

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Deep down though, I hated myself for being Asian.

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At the start of my game journey, my subconscious belief about my attractiveness and self worth was totally destroyed because of the Asian thing.

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Everytime I got rejected or rejected myself from approach, I had always somewhat felt that it was because I'm Asian.

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"I would get this girl if I wasn't Asian."

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"I would be more free and expressive if I wasn't Asian."

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"I'm fucking Asian lol."

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These thoughts regularly surfaced my mind as a result of my upbringing. I had unconsciously adopted a toxic worldview.

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The journey to changing this belief on a core, emotional level follows stages. It boils down to a combination of internal mindsets and external results that helped me reframe my reality and start seeing myself as a sex-worthy guy.

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But essentially it's a process of dropping the lens you've seen the world through your whole life, and reestablishing a more objective yet healthy reality - a process that requires mindfulness, emotional resilience, composure, objectivity and work.

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And at times, it will click and you will drop it. Then later, your inner demons come rushing back and dominate your world.

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It's an on-going process to resolve these loops and narrative that you've fed yourself your whole life.

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