Whatsup Reddit! Today I'm back with another video on how to give girls compliments.

A very fucking powerful tool if you're able to use it at the right times and in the right ways.

The first thing you have to understand when you think about compliments is that the reason it works so well is because you're giving her VALIDATION.

Validation is the game here. And if you can control the dose of validation you give her, you're going to be able to keep her chasing, feeling good, and engaged.

So here are the 3 tips.

#1 - Consider who is giving the compliment

The most powerful compliments are given by someone who you respect and trust as a reliable source of information. This means that if you can frame yourself as a HIGH VALUE guy with actual standards, then your compliments will come across that much more powerful.

One simple way to come across this way is to balance out your compliments with negative expressions.

You can even do some push pull in the same compliment.

And if you think about it, when you're just chilling out with your buddies, you're not only giving them compliments right? So why would you do it with a girl?

If you can tease her 5 times then give her a genuine compliment complimenting her style, it's going to come across so much powerful as opposed to if you just spoon fed her compliment after compliment.

(Infield clip in YouTube video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MlkZCScu_HA)

Consider the girl's PERCEPTION of you.

Are you too nice? Most likely.

#2 - Be different with your compliments, Deep personality compliment

The number one mistake that most guys make when complimenting girls is giving generic compliments that everyone gives.

For example, her eyes, tits, ass.

These can be powerful but only in the right moments.

What's better is to be more selective with your compliments and reward her inner values.

Remember this:

The more closely she identifies with the value, the more powerful the compliment will be.

For example for party girls, you can compliment them on being adventurous, fun, spontaneous, funny.

Whereas for ambitious independent girls, you can compliment them on being independent, ambitious, driven, different to every other girl.

Another hack is to compliment her on these things RIGHT AFTER she showed that quality.

So for example right after she shared an intimate story of her past, you can compliment her on being so brave for being vulnerable even though you guys just met and she's different to most people in that way.

This will ensure that it comes across as genuine.

#3 - Frame her to have qualities you want her to have

This is more of an advanced concept but also really powerful way to let people know your expectations and personal preference.

You want to frame her to have qualities you want her to have.

For example, if you want a girl to be open minded, adventurous, then you can compliment her on being that.

This will create commitment and consistency bias so she'll be more inclined to act in align with the agreed frames.

Think about it, imagine if you took a new job and your boss constantly praised you for being so hardworking!
"You're so hardworking! You always go the extra mile compared to your co-workers!"

Even if she doesn't even know you yet because it's a new job.

You're going to be so much more likely to continue to keep up that perception.

And think about it, what are some behaviors or attitudes you want in a girl in cold approach setting?

\- Friendly  \- Spontaneous  \- Adventurous  \- Open minded  \- Expressive

See YouTube video for infield examples

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MlkZCScu_HA

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