Girl starts texting conversation but then gives dull responses

airmcnair06 · 2018-11-23T19:46:07+00:00

She's bored....

That's what women do when they are bored. They reach out to a bunch of people and whoever catches their interest the most gets the most attention. She's not giving you a generic boring answer on purpose... She's actually as bored and boring as she seems in those moments. She wants you to excite her.

She's not up to anything... She wants you to be up to something so she can join you or live vicariously through your story... Again, because she is bored.

By you providing boring responses (if she's hot, she gets asked how her day is ALL THE TIME) , she takes your cue and provides boring responses as well.

Sounds like you are reactive to her and what her responses are. She wants you to take the lead, because she's bored and doesn't know how to take the lead.

Don't worry so much about getting a response from her. Texting women is all for emotional bs. You want to meet up. Not have a long conversation about how her day was.

Payshince · 2018-11-23T20:51:01+00:00

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Payshince · 2018-11-23T20:11:21+00:00

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Blessme88 · 2018-11-24T00:40:02+00:00

Same here! Girl starts convos with me and then stops all of a sudden. Im the one talking and talking and man that shit is frustrating as hell. She would txt me and then stop and I’m just like “wtf, really” I would txt her and she would be so short with her answer that I stopped because she really was interested or interesting. I posted a story with another girl once, she right away said “let’s get some pizza” and she paid. Posted another picture of a girl so we will see where it goes. I kinda get she wants a challenge, like she wants to chase but I’m the one chasing her and it bores her. My advice to you is not txt or “like any of her stuff on IG, hell don’t even view her stories. See where it takes you for a week. Go out with another girl and post a story. Good luck man, I really hope you get what you’re chasing after

LingeringGnome · 2018-11-24T01:24:45+00:00

Your the man, so lead. Women will often mirror the vibe of the man (and I don't say this in a negative way, they are more emotional than men and creatures of their current environment more than men are).

Her: I went grocery shopping today.

you: Did you handle any bananas?

uptimex · 2018-11-24T08:36:45+00:00

Just call her out whenever you feel that answers get dull.

Or tease her, or get sexual. Get into flirty sexual conversation like "i dont like compliments much... buy sometimes I give some accidantely ... in some situations... when I cant control myself". And shit like this. You will see how soon she will be ignited.

But anyway texting is just for calling her out.

stevenmarkryan · 2018-11-24T00:34:40+00:00

It's becuase you are BORING, dude. She's reaching out hoping you're not like every other boring guy, but you are like every other boring guy.

Facts of life.

Be interesting, and different.

Blessme88 · 2018-11-24T00:40:29+00:00

Was not*

2018-11-25T03:22:15+00:00

Ignore and block her.

Title	Girl starts texting conversation but then gives dull responses
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Date	November 23, 2018 7:05 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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