Brothers, I've been lurking around TRP for awhile and been following some of the rules and so far it has benefited greatly.

Some cliff notes back story: I've been crushing on this girl for a few months now. I was completely BP/orbiter around this chick. She would flirt and be suggestive and I would eat that shit up like a fat kid eating a cookie. I flirted along but never really took initiative. This was happening when she already had a BF. She kept this a secret from me until I called her out on it and then she finally admitted she was seeing someone. Anyway, even after knowing this, we had a "discussion" of why did get along so well but not together? She said, blatantly, "because I'm not sexually attracted to you". Fair enough, I mean why would she be? I was this sensitive bitch that didn't take control. She already proclaimed I am her best friend so I left it as that. Despite all of this, I confessed my feelings for her (A HUGE MISTAKE), and she said she didn't feel the same way at this moment. In my mind, it was finally over and that I could move on (though feeling terrible about the whole thing)

This is when is when I discovered TRP. She was gone for about a month for work and I took this opportunity to work on my self confidence through the workings of TRP (lift, monk mode, meeting other women, etc). When she came after work, she would try to hang out and I would Heisman her. Make her adjust to my schedule. After she finally caught on to my schedule, something weird happened. We went out drinking and we were flirty as usual, but this time I took more initiative. I was being more aggressive and made my feelings known through physical action, and not through my words. I would talk about other chicks, my other plates, and she would be intrigued. I guess this gave her a hook onto me.

Fast forward a week later, she wanted to tag along to a party I was going to. I knew one person at this party, but I figure it was my time to go mingle, but despite this, I told her "sure why not". We end up going and we just sorta ignored everyone and and just had a good ol' time. The night was winding down and out of nowhere we kissed and I stopped it. I suggested we leave before things escalated. We left, and things still escalated. At this time, we were in full make out mode, fore play, the works. I know that night we would have fucked at my place, but I told her she had to go.

Current situation: Since then, we talked about what happened and she feels bad, but also said she see's me differently and that she's actually tempted, nervous and hesitant around me since she wants more because I'm taking more control. All this while she's with someone else.

Any advice of what I should do next? It seems like the natural progression of this is that we're gonna fuck eventually, but I don't want to do this while she's seeing someone (the BP in me), but hey, I'm only human and I'm tempted too and now that she's on my same wave length, I'm not sure what to do.