Am I missing something? Why should I bother?

GREF_ · 2015-01-29T20:39:07+00:00

If this is the way you feel then you shouldn't! Go your own way.

http://www.mgtow.com/

SavingSelf · 2015-01-30T00:18:25+00:00

You don't have to bother. If you want sex you will need to. If you want loyal (ha) companionship from a woman you will need to.

If you don't give a flying fuck about either, than you don't have to.

teeelo · 2015-01-30T00:44:02+00:00

Just to clarify, you are not fucking a child in an adults body. She is an adult that acts like a child. Big difference.

StarDestinyGuy · 2015-01-30T02:44:28+00:00

I agree with you, it isn't worth it.

If there's anything TRP has most strongly convinced me of, it's that women aren't even worth it.

I'm personally considering going gay or just using prostitutes when I want sex.

oldredder · 2015-01-30T05:18:24+00:00

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oldredder · 2015-01-30T05:15:17+00:00

All depends on how bad your sex drive says you need it. You can also cut out a lot of games, nonsense & risk by going with hookers. It will cost in money instead of in risk like false rape claims or a woman who fucks like a hooker but more carelessly because she won't admit she is a hooker by any other name.

In most countries (UK, Canada, America, Australia) that are English-speaking reddit-oriented places where 'theredpill' is being read... there's next to no benefit, net, for a man to be in a relationship for more than sex. At all. You didn't "miss it", you figured it out. You solved the puzzle.

You win an internet.

tepper2 · 2015-01-29T20:14:10+00:00

See the part about confidence.

I knew I'd save myself a lot of time with that post.

dpa · 2015-01-30T03:25:11+00:00

funny how noone will give you a straight answer to your question, most just tell you to fuck off, as if the answer is so obvious. the closest thing to an answer is grrrms response, which isnt very satisfying. he says essentially that we should bother with women because we need them. i think your question is actually quite deep, even if the way you express it is a tad combative. unfortunately, i dont have a good answer for you.

GRRMkills · 2015-01-29T20:40:11+00:00

Regardless of how much anger women might make you feel at them, their feminine side is one of the best things about them. You can't take the loving, caring, comforting, sexy, feisty side of women and not the emotional, unstable, unreliable side, it doesn't work that way.

The thing is that if you are a masculine man, you need a feminine woman. The qualities you are describing are all the negative aspects of a feminine woman, but you're forgetting how it would feel to date a neutral or even masculine woman. It would suck. There would be no passion, the sex would be horrible, and in general you'd get nothing out of the relationship that you couldn't get from your male friends. So that's why you should bother, and if that doesn't make sense to you after you get out of your depression stage, you could always go MGTOW (but really what's the fun in that?)

Gstreetshit · 2015-01-29T21:22:07+00:00

Sounds like MGTOW

RedderThanAll · 2015-01-30T06:44:13+00:00

If you need help comprehending such a basic human objective you probably shouldn't be trying. It might actually be healthier for you to try homosexuality.

vandaalen · 2015-01-29T21:21:27+00:00

Aside from sex, I don't really see what I'm getting from women?

So quit wanting to have sex. Problem solved.

If you can't though, quit bathing in your self-pity, accept reality and deal with it.

Title	Am I missing something? Why should I bother?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	4
Comments	32
Date	January 29, 2015 8:03 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2u46zi/am_i_missing_something_why_should_i_bother/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/am-i-missing-something-why-should-i-bother.145730 https://theredarchive.com/post/145730

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