I've been to Ukraine this year.

I'm currently in Thailand.

A lot of the hottest women in these countries are still super-shy. I guess it's part of the dating culture there.

Maybe there are some hot shy girls in your country too...

I'd thought I'd share my experience of successfully gaming them (and why it's worth putting the effort in to do so)

  • It's common she's not going to be providing much in the way of content when you meet her or on the first date, so you need to be hot on your self-amusement.
  • Make peace with the fact that you'll probably need to provide most of the entertainment. The fact that you can 'draw state from within' and don't need her feedback from her to have a good time is earning you passive attraction.
  • Shy girls will be less likely to want to make out in public. Don't be put off by this. More subtle physicality is still important. Playing with fingers. Playing with jewellery. hugs etc.
  • You'll also get the: 'Stop. I'm shy' objection when you try to escalate in public. I like to comeback with 'yeah, i'm shy too'. She'll playfully argue back saying you're not shy. This is good. She's verbally admitted that she finds you charismatic.
  • If she's shy, she might be more resistant to be pulled anywhere. Baby-steps are arguably more important than ever. Concentrate on making it seem like "not a big deal" more than "an awesome time".
  • You'll get the 'I bet you do this with all the girls' shit-test a lot. Have comebacks pre-prepared. I like to agree and exaggerate e.g 'yup, you're girl number 10,000'
  • Escalating in the bedroom. You'll get a lot of 'token resistance' here. The kind where she's saying 'no' 'you're crazy' 'this is bad' in a playful way with a smile on her face. The key here is stop, slow things down to a pace she's comfortable with, then try to escalate later on.
  • Even with the most 'token' of resistance, you need to make it clear at all times that can she can get up and leave at any time. She needs to feel 'safe' as much as she feels 'turned on'. If she's got this far with you, it's likely she wants to go further. She just needs to feel comfortable.

You're probably familar with the PUA concept of value vs comfort. With shy girls, it's often 'good game' to show value for the first 20% of the date/interaction, then comfort for the final 80%. That's what they need more of.

WHY ARE SHY GIRLS WORTH ALL THIS BULLSHIT???

This is a question I would have asked a few months ago...

As I said, I've now visited countries where even the hottest girls put up this 'shy' shell. Breaking this shell is worth the wait.

Once they trust you, these girls often turn out to be hyper-sexual. After we had sex the first time, these Ukrainian and Thai girls have been blowing up my phone with filthy messages. Begging to meet up again. And again and again. It's been some of the best sex of the year.

It's as if they have all this sexual energy repressed - and it comes out like a fire hose once it's released.

So, whatever country you're in...

  • DON'T MISTAKE SHYNESS FOR DISINTEREST.
  • DON'T ASSUME SHY GIRLS AS HAVE NO SEXUALITY.
  • All girls (except weird ultra-religious ones) have a fiery sexual demon inside of them.
  • It's a man's job to make her comfortable enough to unleash it.
  • You'll be rewarded handsomely when you do.

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