How to turn friend into girlfriend

jamiethecoles · 2018-12-30T17:21:12+00:00

Getting your penis out is a one-way ticket out of the friend zone

goron24 · 2018-12-30T21:56:06+00:00

Press this magic "girlfriend button".. How about treating her like a person and flirting with her, if she responds go with it. If not don't keep pressing it or you'll lose a friend too

thapussypatrol · 2018-12-30T19:07:27+00:00

I am just letting you know: in all cases where I've been in a friendzone (or perceived it this way), either:

(i) (the obvious) she clearly didn't feel the same and it was very clear - some girls will be very naturally flirty until you act just like them back.

(ii) you will be friends with a girl until you eventually just tell her you like her (so that's with a bit of ambiguity of where the friendships heading) and she'll either say yes or no

or (iii) the girl will think she is in the friendzone, and she will actively try to flirt and talk about sexual stuff out of the blue

if you don't think she is just being a cheap cocktease (i) but rather a possibility (ii) or a clear likelihood (iii), just flat out tell her - just put all your chips on the table and see what happens. my philosophy is to do this and turn away all your female friends in the process is better than having female friends that you want to bang, because there's no point in constantly wanting that. what is obvious too is the more you get into this abundance mindset, the less of a shit you'll give if she says no, and what's probable is that she probably won't insult you or anything by saying no but will rather be flattered or will apologise for potentially leading you on - normally it'll all be fine. the funny thing is, with some of those girls, they will keep trying to talk to you after you've told them you liked them, and then you have to actually say "...yeah...you realise this is..."done", right?" in so many words.

2018-12-30T20:02:49+00:00

It is infinitely harder, often impossible to do this compared to finding a new girl who you haven't already done things wrong with.

mseand · 2018-12-30T17:51:56+00:00

Can you do yourself a favor and learn how to flirt first?

Title	How to turn friend into girlfriend
Author	ninja3429
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	December 30, 2018 5:18 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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