I've been in the game for a while, but I've noticed I'm starting to struggle with things that I did not before like approaching. A year ago, I used to go out all the time, meeting tons of girls, doing crazy fun shit, it wasnt hard for me to get laid, but my productivity sunk...school, work, everything. Then I decided that I'm gonna get my shit together, so I started to workout way harder then before (I mean like 6 days a week, counting calories everyday, put on 20 lbs of muscle). I was determined to look my best, and I can safely say that girls do find me attractive.I focused on university, got my grades up, I was in pure hustle mode. I went out last night and even though I put so much work in myself, it was I felt like I wasnt good enough to approach or just try to pick up. Even though I was smarter and wayyy better looking than the year before which I got laid a lot, I had no confidence at all. I feel like the more I work on myself, the bigger the gap I have in my self belief. Tbh to me it seems like the less I cared about my life the more success I had with women.

I don't know if any other guys dealt with a problem like this but any advice would be helpful