In the past month I've been using some dread game and withdrawing a little bit, not texting first, and things are going better than expected.

And there is also this passive dread game - she found out that before her I made out with 2 of my neighbors from my dorm, also that I made out with a chick at a party when I was already with her, damn she forgave me easily and I was surprised. So I guess she knows I can get myself another woman.

My friend is coming back from working abroad and we're going out; my gf is sick at home (we live far away, but when in dorms we see each other often). So I told her I'm going out with my mate, and she said - 'sure have fine, but please be good (nice)' (as to not hitting on other girls)

Recently she's behaving really good; and I was thinking of answering something like - honey, recently you've been behaving really good and you have nothing to worry about' but the I just ignored her text and didnt send it.

So what to do when the dread game works and she's behaving well, and she is clearly worried ? Should I calm her down? Say something that will appreciate her good behavior and show her that if she behaves good and be kind I'll be with her? Also when it is too much dread or too much alpha?