Do you think it is okay for a girl to not date you because of your race ?

intellectualnerd85 · 2019-01-12T23:59:53+00:00

Your being rather racist and immature. You can fixate on weight all you want. You can choose to see preferences as racism. To assume people won't date you because they must be racist is playing the victim.

intellectualnerd85 · 2019-01-12T23:35:38+00:00

We all have our preferences. Is a person an ablist for not dating the disabled? What about height, weight of cleavage?-if its based on a racist belief then yes otherwise its not

Iwishtomovefurther · 2019-01-12T23:51:02+00:00

It's ok for anyone to say no to you for any reason they want. Dating / mating is not the same as hiring or w/e.

I personally won't date non-whites anymore. Does that make me a racist?

intellectualnerd85 · 2019-01-12T23:53:11+00:00

No im pointing out other groups deal with discrimination. Not being interested in specific erhnic group is not inherintlt racist. To assume it's raxisn is rathrr weak. If it makes you feel better then play the victim card

LegacyTeutonic · 2019-01-12T23:55:36+00:00

No its not racist, I dont like to date black women and not super attracted to Hispanic girls. That doesn't mean I believe my race is superior.

curca · 2019-01-13T09:12:17+00:00

Would you date a HIV positive person? Or even simpler: would you date 2/10 girl who has deformed face and narrow hips because she was born with this phenotype? No?! You fucking discriminatory scumbag!

If you thought that surgery may help 2/10 girl - you too can do what Michael Jackson did to his skin and look white.

That's life, learn to deal with adversity and discrimination, people do it all the time and it isn't bad. You are not entitled to other person's preferences.

intellectualnerd85 · 2019-01-12T23:45:46+00:00

Actually your wrong. Fat people do get discriminated against, people get discriminated because of age. to assume its racism because someone's not ibterested in you is foolish. Which was the point I was making.

intellectualnerd85 · 2019-01-13T00:08:17+00:00

No your choising to ignore facts, fixating on ine fact and getting upset. Ever here of food desetets? That can make it difficult if not impossible. You cant ivnote disabled being discriminated against nor rhe eldrrly. So explain how a person not being attracted to sn ethnic group as racist? If your not attracted to people of the same gender make you homophobic?

intellectualnerd85 · 2019-01-13T00:25:56+00:00

You are automatically assuming racism why someone rejects them. You can disagree all you like. Some people lile to date outside their race. Some like to stick to their ethnic group for a variety of reasones. Your a racist, keep those blinders on. Attractoon isn't a complex issue. Not dating out of a ethnic group is not inherently racist. Its been proven people are attracted to people who have similar looks. Others like shared experiences. Learn to handle differing views amd rejection. Feel free to focus on weight though.

intellectualnerd85 · 2019-01-13T00:38:39+00:00

The only one being alt politisl is you. The only one focusing on weight is you. By your logic jewish people who dste only jews are racist. Blacks who throw black only partiex are being racist. Tou can literally not support your question and it upsets you. Ues it's perfectly alright to not be interested in a ethnic group provides its not foundrd on a racist ideology. Sorry rejection is so hard for you.

totalwpierdol · 2019-01-13T08:22:12+00:00

Everyone can refuse to date anyone for any reason and even without reason.

_BatsShadow_ · 2019-01-13T02:35:50+00:00

No, you can’t help if you’re not attracted to someone, you can choose your actions towards them though. Also hiring someone isn’t the same as being attracted to them, where did you get that comparison from?

Renegader933 · 2019-01-13T21:36:02+00:00

I mean you can’t control whether or not you’re attracted to someone, so yeah if she doesn’t want to date you then she doesn’t want to.

TheXXL · 2019-01-14T16:22:08+00:00

Of course it is OK. Fortunately this generation hasn't gone so far into "absolute retardation" territory to make the personal choice to date whoever one wants, and therefore the choice to not date anyone one doesn't want, illegal. Is it not OK that a girl doesn't want a man who is a niceguy? Is it not OK that most men would not want to date a land whale? Is it OK that straight men don't want to date another man? What is the difference then?

2019-01-14T20:47:58+00:00

I don't know, is it ok if you reject a girl because you're not into a certain race?

Title	Do you think it is okay for a girl to not date you because of your race ?
Author	Iwishtomovefurther
Upvotes	0
Comments	36
Date	January 12, 2019 11:29 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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