(Dealing with LMR with the Yoda Sequence principles)

A lot of people have been asking how the team here at UMP have girls chasing us for sex and even apologising in the morning for “making us have sex with them”. The roles are completely reversed. Unfortunately, I can give away all the secrets that are taught in our residential program, but I can give you the key principles.

Removing last minute resistance (LMR) from an interaction is not about taking the experience of sex from a girl. It is not about convincing a girl to have sex with you, and it is definitely not about having sex with a girl that doesn’t want to fuck you.

Removing LMR is about making a girl feel comfortable with the fact that she wants to fuck you, it’s about ensuring the girl wakes up the next morning without feeling regret, judged or ashamed.

The way I think about it is like this; the night is a secret agreement between the two of you in which you both know you want and are going to have sex but you both pretend like it’s not going too. It’s kind of like an inside joke. The girl wants to know you are socially and emotionally intelligent enough to understand the way society works or the views her friends may have. It is important not to make her uncomfortable by being to explicit unless she has shown a willingness for this (usually age and culture is a big determinant of this.)

Key Principles

1) She needs to be attracted, compliant and thus invested enough to want to have sex with you. Build investment first.

2) You need to build comfort and a connection (but not all the time).

3) You must remove social and moral pressures around the concepts of slut shaming. She needs to feel like she can have sex with a 'stranger' and not feel like she will be judge by herself, by you, or her friends.

4) Set a frame that the interaction is sexual, fun and adventurous. A girl may have no limiting beliefs around sex, slut shaming, and may also be starting to develop a connection with you. But, if she is in an apathetic mood and not a risk taker, she may not have the motivation to go home with you.

5) Pull with sexual intent. When going to the sex location the girl needs to know that sex in a possibility, but also have plausible deniability to tell herself that it wasn’t. If she really thinks she’s just coming back for a drink, then when you begin to escalate she will feel manipulated and unconfutable.

6) Set frames that you are the prize and she is the one that needs to get over YOUR LMR.

If these are achieved through story telling and framing then there will be need to

“push through or overcome LMR, there will be no need to work it out with the girl. It will naturally flow and happen.

The added benefit to this is the girl for the first time gets to chase. She gets to have the adrenaline rush of winning you over. She will feel no shame is having crazy wild sex with you.

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