Is texting on the day of the date okay?

youngcm6039 · 2019-01-16T04:03:35+00:00

I’m by no means an expert but the message you are planning on sending sounds really cringy to me. You’re giving her too much validation by calling her beautiful and the smiley face. Save that kind of talk for when the moment is right while in person.

If it were me, I would just be more straightforward and say something more along the lines of “Hey, looking forward to our date tomorrow.” This works by reminding her of the date and by not giving her control of whether or not the date happens by saying “Are we still good for tomorrow?”

Slayaisawesome · 2019-01-16T05:21:59+00:00

Looks lik im gonna have to copy paste this comment alot.

Id say before anything, you should first sit down and have a certain conversation with yourself:

Make sure you tell yourself, everytime you think about this girl, that she isn't:

A: your soulmate

B: better or higher than you

C: lower than you

D: equal to you

The point is that you shouldn't contexualize in any way how this girl compares to you, just implies that you're putting her over yourself or other girls you've met. She will sense this, and either take advantage of you or throw you away. KNOW that this girl is just a pile of flesh just like every other organism on this godforsaken planet

Now that doesn't mean you should let yourself go and expect her to like you, because you still have to set a certain tone, but i think you get it.

YOUR THOUGHT PROCESS SHOULD BE THAT THIS GIRL COULD BE NOTHING MORE THAN A GOOD ADDITION TO AN ALREADY GREAT OR AT LEAST TOLERABLE LIFE.

She could either be "that one cherry on top" or not. Simple as that.

All this worrying about how much you should text and hang out with her etc is already fucking you up.

If you GENUINELY like this girl, text her when you want, hang out with her when you want etc.If you are conveying to her than you are a strong man in person, she won't need to look for signs in texting patterns etc. as to what type of guy you are.

This girl is one of your "special friends," not your sole object of attention or only pass time. She just fulfills something that you may or may not have wanted before.

Just be respectful of boundries and don't do anything creepy. Don't make her feel like she always has to be the leader. And if something that no one else will say needs to be said, SAY IT.

That's it. Ride that wave but don't way it down to much.

Brostory_com · 2019-01-16T08:37:43+00:00

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DONT.

Just don't send anything.

Title	Is texting on the day of the date okay?
Author	LegacyTeutonic
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	January 16, 2019 3:33 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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