Girlfriend goes to club without me?

LanceMacchiato · 2019-01-25T20:18:12+00:00

Tell this to your girl : " your friend, insert annoying friend's name here is kinda hot."

Problem solved. 😄

2019-01-25T23:11:06+00:00

She's everyones girlfriend now

Errantsquire · 2019-01-25T20:57:25+00:00

Is the friend mooching off of your time, money or energy? If she is then you might need to draw some boundries. It's fine for your girlfriend to choose her friends and you can be cordial but that doesn't make them your friends by extension. Just like I can introduce a girl to a co-workers wife but that doesn't mean they'll be friends.

Having the 2 girls go to the club is fine. Unfortunately it's really dangerous to be a solo girl in our society and so they need to have a second set of eyes to help when any number of bad things can happen to them. As long as you are serving your girls emotions then she is yours and she shouldn't sway easily to some random club dude. If she does move on then live in abundance by going out to meet more girls and start working on game.

Have a mission, your girlfriend is not your purpose for being even though the Disney movies say that's what love is. She might say she wants to be the center of your universe but she really doesn't. If her friend gets in the way of your mission you now have an excuse to ask for time to focus on your stuff.

I hope you get 1on1 time because the 3rd wheel can get out of hand unless they're thinking it's going to turn into a 3some or something which it sounds like it's not. I hope you're not getting beta'd into providing for 2 girls without having your own needs met, if that's the case it's time to have a talk or kick them to the curb.

I was very beta in my first marraige and I didn't realize it until much later in life. There was a time when her friend came to stay with us for a while, I forget the reason. It wasn't to bad, she basically just slept on our couch and played Animal Crossing during the day. The funny thing was that she was better looking that my wife, so maybe I should have made a move. I fed her while she stayed with us but I had plenty of date time alone with my wife so I didn't mind. It was more of a vacation for her in retrospect. It's possible that my wife wanted a 3some but who knows that was like 14 years ago now.

nyc0wl · 2019-01-25T23:42:55+00:00

Do you trust your girlfriend? If not why are you with her?

betterthanatesla · 2019-01-25T19:01:40+00:00

Stop being stressed. She has a life as well and she likes doing things alone or with her friends, same as you do. Do you do EVERYTHING with your girlfriend? I'm sure you don't, I bet there are places you go /things you do alone.

Title	Girlfriend goes to club without me?
Author	Marsial32
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	January 25, 2019 6:48 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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